Saturday, February 14, 2009

The Best Position for a Girl to Orgasm

Is there a "best" position in which to give a girl an orgasm?

Ultimately, no. Every girl is different, and has different likes, dislikes, turn-ons and turn-offs, and personal preferences, which means that finding which position(s) will work best to get her off is primarily a matter of trial and error.

However, in order to make things a bit easier on you, I thought I would talk about some of the positions I have found that have a very high success rate in regards to helping a girl achieve orgasm. If it's your first time with a girl, or even if you just haven't had much experience with this particular woman, try trying a few of these out in the one session and see if any are particularly successful.

Position #1: Cowgirl

The cowgirl position is one of the most simple, effective sexual positions for female stimulation out there. Essentially, you lay on your back, and she straddles you while kneeling (facing towards you). This will allow her to bend forward to change the angle that your penis hits her vaginal wall, making it easier for her to guide it to her G Spot. It also allows her to take in as much or as little of you as she wants, by raising or lowering her body via her legs. On top of all this (no pun intended), the position lends itself to a decent amount of visual communication and intimacy, and also has the bonus of not requiring you to work too hard! What more can you ask for?

Position #2/3: Variations on the Missionary Position

When most people envision missionary, they think of dry, drull, ho-hum sex that can't end fast enough. And that's a shame, really, because you can easily adapt some slight, simple changes and allow the missionary position to metamorphose into something really exciting.

Firstly, try putting a pillow under her butt. This will raise the angle of her hips, allowing your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G Spot. Obviously this is with you on top, as is the next variation.

For variation number two, experiment with putting her legs over your shoulders. This will tighten the vaginal opening, making it feel much tighter for you, as well as much more intense for her. Be careful in this position however, as if you are bigger than average it can be pretty easy to accidentally hit the cervical wall, which is a sure-fire mood killer.

Position #4: Doggie-Style

Sex from behind, like all the other positions discussed thus far, has many distinct advantages. In addition to allowing her (or you, if your arms are long enough) to play with her clitoris during intercourse, it allows her to basically set the angle, speed, depth, and other factors to her liking. In addition it lends itself well to quick, powerful thrusting, not to mention some more "kinky" additions such as spanking and hair-pulling.

So the next time you have sex with your girl, try out one or two of these positions. Take note of how reacts. Talk to her about what she liked and didn't like about it. Eventually you will find one that really, really works for you - in which case you will at least have a base-line to compare future sexual experiences with her with.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on best positions for orgasm.

Article originally published here: The Best Position for a Girl to Orgasm.

Female Orgasm Tips

If you are reading this article, I can assume fairly safely that your partner isn't having as many mind-blowing orgasms as you would like her to.

Don't feel bad. 70% of women in the United States have never actually had an orgasm. If you have given your girl at least one at some point, then you should feel good - you're already ahead of the curve. That's not to say these tips won't help you give your female MORE orgasms, but you must be doing something right.

However, if you haven't, don't stress, because within this article are some simple, easy-to-apply tips on how to give any female a mind-blowing orgasm (or multiple orgasms, for that matter) that you can apply tonight and instantly see improvement in your approach.

Having said all that, here are some of my best tips to help you give a female an orgasm.

1. Does she masturbate? Female masturbation is a VERY helpful thing. If she knows what she likes, she can tell YOU what she likes. If she doesn't, it's still possible to figure it out - heck, I've given plenty of women their first orgasms. However, doing so requires an advanced set of skills which I don't have the room to cover here. However, I do cover it in my ebook, and there's a link at the end of the article if you're interested in checking it out.

2. Is she relaxed during sex? Being too tense or worried about something (for example, the mortgage, car repayments, the kids, her job, college, whatever) will severely limit her ability to reach climax. Furthermore, if she's worried about the fact she's not coming, or trying to make herself reach orgasm, then it's almost guaranteed that she won't reach it. Try to tell her to relax, breathe deep, and just enjoy the experience, whatever happens.

3. Have you given her enough foreplay? Foreplay is arguably even more important than the sex itself. Make sure that before you enter her she is very wet and her vagina is red and almost swollen (the classic analogy of a flower opening is a good one). This will ensure that a decent amount of blood has rushed down there, which will heighten her sensations and, yes, you guessed it - make it far easier for you to give her that orgasm.

4. Try different positions and stimulation. Just pounding away will rarely achieve anything. Make sure you engage all her sexual organs - the most important one being her mind! Whether she likes dirty talk, wants to be kissed passionately, bitten on the neck, have you play with her nipples with your free hand (far easier when she is on top so you don't have to use your hands and arms to balance, admittedly) or whatever her particular fetish is. The best way to find out: ask.

If you can get all these things to work simultaneously, then it will be nearly impossible for you not to give her the greatest orgasm of her life.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on female orgasm tips.

Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Tips.

Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm

There are lots of "easy" ways to make a girl have an orgasm. But what, exactly, are the easiest?

As usual this is somewhat of a loaded question. Every girl is different, hence, the "easiest" way to give a girl an orgasm will be different for every single woman.

Having said that, in this article I hope to cover some simple, effective points which will provide you with a good starting point to begin your investigations on what exactly will give your girl the easiest orgasms possible.

Involve Her Most Powerful Sexual Organ

If you're wondering what I'm referring to, it isn't the clitoris, G-Spot, or anything like that.

It's her mind.

That's right. If you want to learn one of the biggest keys to making her orgasm quickly and easily, you need to learn exactly how to engage her mind and get her sexually excited mentally. Talk dirty to her. Tell her exactly what you're going to do to her. Make sure you use your words to draw attention to what you want her to focus on - visual sights, feelings, telling you what feels good - whatever. The point is to ensure that she's as involved as possible in the experience, whilst also accelerating her arousal.

Making Life Easy on Yourself

On the subject of arousal, it may surprise you to know that the secret to making a girl orgasm quickly and easily has far less to do with your actual "moves" than you may expect. In reality, the fact of the matter is that the more "prep work" you do - as in, the more aroused you can make her before you start trying to make her orgasm - the quicker and easier she will orgasm.

To put it another way, you really shouldn't skimp on building sexual arousal, sexual tension, and having powerful foreplay. If you do, you're only making things more difficult for yourself later in the session, and potentially giving both yourself and your partner a very frustrating experience.

Learn From Your Mistakes

Finally, if you are fortunate enough to have the ability to have regular sexual contact with one girl, please pay attention during sex. Learn what she does and doesn't like. What turns her on and what turns her off. Her favorite positions, her fetishes, her fantasies. Armed with this kind of information you should be able to make her orgasm quicker and easier every time you have sex, and theoretically sex for both of you should gradually get better and better.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on easy ways to give a girl orgasms.

Article originally published here: Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm.

Female Orgasm Secrets

Back in my younger days, before I got into writing about this kind of stuff for a living, I used to talk to a lot of girls about their sex lives. In fact, I still do, but it sounded cooler talking about my youth.

In any case, there were a lot of girls who confided in me that they thought there was something wrong with them sexually, because they simply could not climax. They told me their partners had read all these manuals on how to please a woman sexually and knew all the hottest techniques - so why were they having problems?

Quite simply, because sex is not about techniques. It's about simple, useful, common-sense principles.

Here's a secret about the female orgasm that most people won't tell you - it's VERY easy to bring about.

Provided, of course, you know what you're doing.

So many people these days can't see the forest for the trees. They are too busy trying fancy techniques (such as using an exact spiral motion with a very specific amount of pressure one inch below the clitoris, or whatever) that they've forgotten the basic rules about sexual gratification (assuming they ever knew them in the first place).

Sex is supposed to feel good for both parties. It's kind of important for the survival of the human race, so it makes sense that the urge is hardwired in our DNA to be one of the most physically pleasurable experiences we can go through.

So having said all that, here are some of the best kept secrets about the female orgasm. Read them, memorize them, apply them.

1. You Set Yourself Up for Success or Failure Before you Take Your Clothes Off

Building sexual tension and sexual attraction is the #1 step to giving a female an amazingly powerful orgasm. If you can't get this right, then anything else you try is doomed before it's even had a chance to get off the ground.

2. She Wants It More Than You (If You Do It Right)

Anyone who tells you women have a lower sex drive than men is lying. Sure, women who have never had amazing sex, or don't get it very often don't have a very high sex drive. Often, however, when they are receiving really good sex, they want it more than us. Think of a woman's sex drive as the reverse of a man's - the more she gets it, the more she wants it. Hence, never be afraid to initiate things, because if you can build sexual tension and attraction correctly, she won't say no.

3. You Need to Be the Man

In this day and age of political correctness, way too many guys don't want to be too manly. Splitting the check is one thing. Being a wuss in the bedroom is something else. It is hardcoded into a woman's DNA to want a man who will take a firm but gentle hold on the situation and lead her to where she wants to go. A few decades of feminism can't fight millions of years of natural selection. And before you send in the hatemail, please understand, I believe respect and equality is paramount to any good relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm going to donate my testicles to science and not be willing to take the lead in a sexual encounter.

4. Take Your Time

Foreplay is important for many, many reasons. Please, make sure you take your time and worship each part of the female body accordingly. Explore it, treasure it, caress it. Spending the time and effort on foreplay ensures that she will be much, much more receptive to your efforts during the main event.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on secrets of the female orgasm.

Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Secrets.

How to Make a Girl Orgasm

For many girls, having an orgasm at all can be very difficult. Let alone being able to have them relatively easily, quickly, and without effort.

However, this is not the way it has to be. In fact, I have helped many women uncover their natural potential of being able to orgasm consistently and easily. And I'm about to share some of those very secrets with you right now.

The first step to solving a problem is to identify what the true problem really is. The most common cause of a girl's inability to orgasm usually comes down to one or more of a few possible choices. Either she is not receiving the kind of stimulation she needs (which can be dependent on many different variables), or she is not aroused enough to be able to orgasm.

Whilst I have written many articles (and part of my e-book) on common mistakes men make regarding sexual stimulation for women, it isn't really the main cause. Sure, improving your technique in this regard may make things better for her, but it is far rarer to be a deal-breaker than the fact that she isn't aroused enough.

If she isn't aroused enough, again, there are two possible scenarios. The first is that she is not receiving enough foreplay from you, or not the right type or foreplay. In essence, you just aren't turning her on. If that's the case, then you need to learn and understand the principles of foreplay, sexual attraction and sexual tension. Again, that is beyond the scope of this article.

The other possibility, and one that is certainly prevalent in our society, is one that is a little harder to deal with.

Self-sabotage.

Without delving into the historical, political, and religious reasoning behind it (a subject on which whole books can, and have been written) there is one thing you need to know.

Many women have an ingrained fear of allowing themselves to be sexually expressive.

Society at large still has a very strong notion that any women that enjoy themselves sexually are "dirty". Add this to the fact that women are normally extremely self-conscious about their image and how they portray themselves (something you will have observed with painful accuracy if you've ever tried to help a woman select her dress for a party) and you have a very debilitating mental state that makes it almost impossible for a woman to orgasm.

When we have sex, we generally are thinking about how good it feels, how sexy the woman in front of us is, that sort of thing.

Way too many women are having thoughts like "Does my butt look big from this angle? Is my makeup still okay? God, my hair's a mess! If I let him do me from behind am I going to lose his respect?"... And so on.

I think you can imagine how difficult it is to orgasm when you're thinking like that.

Therefore, in order to help a woman bring out her buried sexuality, you have to help her understand and embrace that it's okay to let loose during sex. Tell her how good it makes you feel to see her enjoying herself. Tell her how sexy she looks from that angle.

If you can build up her self-confidence and help her understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not to worry about, then you will have eliminated one of the biggest factors that inhibits a woman's sexual enjoyment - and reap the benefits for a long time to come.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.

Article originally published here: Make Your Girl Orgasm.

Ways to Make a Woman Orgasm

Before I reveal to you the 3 best ways to make your woman orgasm, there's something important you need to know.

In my line of work, I talk to a lot of women on a fairly regular basis. One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when it comes to sex (and believe me, there's a lot of them) is that they expect their "moves" will work on every single girl they come across.

Clearly, this is completely inaccurate. Every woman is different and they all have their own individual likes and dislikes, fetishes, fantasies and so forth. One sure-fire way to turn a girl off is to stop listening to her and her body and just go through the motions with moves that you think will rock her world.

Having said all that, the techniques that follow have been very successful in my (and my clients') endeavours for pleasing women in the bedroom. However, remember, the golden rule of sex is to pay attention to what your partner says, and what her body tells you. Discard this rule at your own peril!

1. Kissing Her on the Lips Between the Hips

Good cunilingus is one of the most amazing sensations a woman will ever feel. Unfortunately however, many women have an inherent discomfort associated with this act. Half the time when a girl is getting head there are all sorts of sexually non-conductive thoughts going through her head. Things like "Do I smell down there?" or "What if I thrust too hard and break his nose" or "It's been way too long since I shaved" really can kill the mood. To combat this, tell her every step of the way how much you want to do it, how much it turns you on, and how much you are enjoying it, and so on.

Also be aware that everything down there is incredibly sensitive. Whilst you definitely want to focus attention on the clitoris, using too much force or even spending too much time on it can be a very uncomfortable sensation. Try and ensure that you give the other parts of her vagina a decent amount of attention as well, although it is usually the clitoris that will send her "over the edge", so be aware to focus more attention on that when she is closer to climaxing.

2. Pillows - Not Just for Your Head

Many people give up way too easily on the missionary position, accusing it of being "bland", "vanilla", and "boring".

Whilst I personally have never felt that way (nor has any woman I've been with), it is true that for the female the missionary position can often be lacking in sexual stimulation. To remedy this, put a pillow under her butt. This will angle her hips upward slightly, which will allow your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G Spot. Needless to say, this is a good thing.

This missionary position also allows you to be in control of her stimulation, which can be useful if she tends to lose control of her muscle control when she gets close to climax. Not only does it allow you to go as fast, slow, deep, or gently as you like, you are also in a position where it doesn't take a great deal of energy for thrusting, which allows you to go for longer without tiring out - essential for the women who take a long time to reach climax.

3. A Different Kind of Pillow Talk

"Dirty Talk" is often overlooked by couples, with disastrous results in the bedroom. Before you hit the back button in your browser, let's make one thing clear - dirty talk does NOT have to be lifted straight out of a bad 80's porno (and in fact, if it is, it will probably do more harm than good).

Talking dirty doesn't even mean you have to use profanity, let alone describe things in the kinds of detail that would make a miner blush (although you may find that kind of talk useful, too). At its core dirty talk works as a kind of mental aid, helping you keep your woman's mind focused on the sensations of the sexual intercourse, instead of worrying about how big her butt is or how much noise she's making. It also allows you to gauge her reaction based on what you are doing to her ("How does that feel, baby?") and finally acts as a "mental trigger". Basically, when she gets very close to climax, telling her that you want her to orgasm not only helps increase her arousal and get her across the finish line, it allows you to subconsciously reassure her that you do indeed want her to orgasm, which will help get around any subsconsciously ingrained fears of it she may have (such as worrying that she will say or look silly).

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on ways to make women orgasm.

Article originally published here: Best Ways to Make a Woman Orgasm.

Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm

Writing this article has proven to be quite a challenge.

You see, whilst there are certainly steps that have to be followed in order to give a girl a powerful, lasting orgasm, the actual nuances of those steps can vary so wildly from girl to girl that it can be very difficult in order to pin it down to any one particular formula.

Thankfully, however, I have enough experience under my belt to be able to make the distinction between necessary steps and personal preference. And in this article I am going to share with you my basic "road map" that I employ in order to give females incredible, powerful orgasms.

Step One: Build Sexual Tension

Simply put, sexual tension is making a girl "want you".

It is a simple concept, but in practise, it can be more difficult than you may think to be able to employ it skillfully in order to bring a girl to an incredibly receptive and sexual state of mind.

Essentially, in order to build sexual tension, you have to shift her mind's focus from whatever is going on in her world, to sex. Specifically, sex with you.

This can be done in several ways. I often use light touches and sexual innuendo (or, if I know the girl well enough, straight-out dirty talk) in order to really ramp up the sexual tension. Realistically, there are loads of ways to build sexual tension effectively, and a complete and thorough (or even brief) discussion of them is really beyond the scope of this article.

Step Two: The Body Follows the Mind

Once you have attuned her mind to sex, your next step is to do a similar thing with her body. We are going to do this through foreplay.

Most guys get foreplay wrong because they think it's about sexual pleasure. It definitely can be that, too, but before we get to that point, we have to "re-focus" the body to become accustomed to a sexual touch.

This means that you should start off with light, flowing, teasing movements. Run your hands over her body. Trace the shape of her breasts with your lips. Let her feel your hot breath on her neck.

The point here is to get the touch receptors and nerves in her skin "fired up" and responding to sexual contact. Again, there is a lot more to it than this brief synopsis, but that is at least the general idea.

Step Three: Provide the Stimulation That Will Bring her to Orgasm

Believe it or not, if you're followed the instructions laid out so far, and done the previous two phases really well, you're already 80% of the way there. In fact, regardless of what you do now, your girl will probably have a powerful, lasting orgasm.

But that's no reason to slack off now, is it?

There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to giving a girl a powerful, earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasm. You have to have a solid understanding of the female sexual anatomy, including how to find and use the clitoris, and G Spot. You need to know the female "hot spots" (there are over twenty) in order to ensure that you maximise her pleasure. You need to have a decent knowledge of which positions are best used for certain types of stimulation, and how to position yourself for maximum stimulation.

That's not to mention being able to read the subtle verbal and physical signals a girl will use in order to tell you what she wants, how to communicate effectively in the bedroom, and what her own personal preferences are.

Thankfully, you've already done the "hard yards" by now, so all you have to do is to ensure that she receives the necessary stimulation to "push her over the edge" and make her orgasm powerfully. Make sure you focus on constantly stimulating her mind as well as her body, and ensure that you remove any negative mental "self-talk" she may have going on.

If you follow these instructions, and carry out the suggestions I have given you correctly, then I guarantee you there is no way that you will be unable to give your girl a powerful, lasting, multiple-orgasms every single night.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on instructions to make a girl orgasm.

Article originally published here: Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm.

Step by Step Female Orgasm Techniques

Shocking fact: 70% of females never have an orgasm during sexual intercourse.

Yep, it's true.

Furthermore, about a third of all females anywhere have never had an orgasm, EVER.

Again, that's 100% FACT.

There are multiple reasons why this may be the case, and every female has a different set of circumstances for why they have never had an orgasm. Some of them are quite severe and require counselling or medical intervention, such as a history of sexual abuse, or the extremely rare cases of women who cannot orgasm based on medical problems.

However, for most women, the reason they have never orgasmed is very simple - they just haven't met a man who can help them reach the "big O".

The reality is that women love sex. Way more than any guy ever could. Think about it. If you had ten THOUSAND times the amount of touch receptors in your skin, as well as the ability to have multiple orgasms all night long, don't you think sex would be better for you too?

However, women usually need a man who can lead them to orgasm. They've been told all their life that it's "dirty" or "slutty" or "wrong" to be forward at all in the areas of romance and sex. It's always the guy who has to go over and talk to her, the guy who has to get her number, the guy who has to initiate the sex. In the same way, it's the guy who has to help them reach orgasm.

So how does this relate to you?

It's simple. You need to take control of her sexual pleasure. That's not to say that she should just lay there and do nothing - in fact, that's a really quick recipe for disaster - but rather that you have to take the initiative during your sexual activiites.

Whilst whole ebooks can be (and have been) written on the subject of pleasing a woman during sex, I've written one myself in fact, which you can check out by clicking on the link in my author bio.

Having said that, in the space of this article, I will at least try to give you some really cool step by step female orgasm techniques, so here we go:

1. Build Sexual Tension/Attraction

You need to build attraction and sexual tension before you even start getting down to things. Women are very perceptive creatures and often know a lot more about us than we like. The way you think about yourself, the way you dress, the aftershave you are wearing, and so on all contribute to how this woman feels about you. And to be really, really good at making her feel really, really good, you need to build a strong attraction SEXUALLY. This is important because many women don't think about sex in the same way we do - they will sleep with someone because they "like" him, but because they're "attracted" to him sexually, probably largely because most women haven't gotten in touch with that really sexual part of themselves yet.

Exactly HOW to go about creating that sexual attraction is a subject all in its own, and it can be very hard to describe on paper. The best advice I can give you in such a short space is to believe you are desirable and sexy. That will project to her through thousands of subconscious signals and she will pick up on it. If you try and walk the walk without having the mental attitude to back it up, you'll just be putting the cart before the horse - and she'll see right through you.

2. Get Her To Relax

One of the biggest factors in women not being able to orgasm is that they're not relaxed. During sex they're worried that their hair is bad, they are ugly, the lighting makes them look bad, their stomach looks big from that angle... whatever. It may be hard for us to understand, but it does happen.

The best way to combat this is to get her to relax and to feel comfortable around you. Try joking around with her, putting her at ease, all that sort of stuff. In addition, if you find she's tense, just focus on doing something that makes her feel good that isn't necessarily sexual - massages are fantastic for this purpose, but there's a lot of other things that can work really well too - like just talking to her.

3. Be In The Driver's Seat

As we have discussed, most women won't advance things out of fear of seeming too "forward". So that means its up to you to take things to their natural conclusion. During each stage of the sexual process, from building tension, to light foreplay, to heavy foreplay, to the actual sex, you will need to guide her through each of these stages. Be firm but gentle, and if she says "no", then listen to her and stop. If she doesn't, however, take that as a green light to keep going.

4. Take Your Time

Nothing is more of a deal-breaker for a girl's orgasm than a guy who just wants to get naked and play "hide the sausage". You need to be more concerned with every single thing you are doing making her feel really, really good. Every part of a girl's body is very sensitive and receptive to any touch you might want to bestow upon it, so have fun. Nibble on her earlobes. Run your hands all over her body. Talk dirty to her (but not too dirty, keep it tame at first). run your tongue over all the parts of her body that you are willing to. All these things help gradually build her into a sexually receptive mindset, which is when you can begin to really make her feel good.

5. Foreplay is Important

Once she's really starting to get horny - for example, she's breathing heavy, moaning a bit, you're both naked, and her vagina is wet and probably a little red and swollen - it's time to start making her feel good. Begin with some more "heavy" foreplay. Try fingering her or, if you and her are comfortable with it, going down on her. Don't stop until she's either had an orgasm (preferably more than one) or she just can't take it anymore and has to jump you.

You will find, at this point, that giving her orgasms is probably very easy, provided you pay attention to what she likes and what she doesn't and adequately use the clit and her G-Spot. These issues are, obviously, far too detailed ot be written about in this article, but my e-book does include a thorough analysis of how to make her feel really good using these two areas (and everything else, for that matter).

As you might have noticed, an orgasm is the end result of a long result of effort applied in the right way. It takes work and preparation, but with the correct knowledge, you can easily give any woman an orgasm any time she wants one, in any position. The frequency and power of those orgasms will certainly increase with your skills improving, however, and that's why I recommend you seek out ways to further improve your knowledge - and then put it to the test. I'm sure she won't mind.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on Female Orgasm Techniques.

Article originally published here: Step by Step Female Orgasm Techniques.

Techniques on How to Give a Woman an Orgasm

You've probably seen the horribly terrifying statistics.

Although they vary based on your source, they all have the same result to tell us - most women simply are NOT getting ANY sexual satisfaction from their partners.

So why is this?

Although there are many different theories on why this is so, I would say it's largely because most men just don't know what the hell they're doing in the bedroom.

They study a heap of complex "techniques", "strategies", "moves", and so on.

NEWSFLASH

It's sex, people. Not a game of chess.

The reason most guys are unable to give their women multiple, wild, screaming orgasms is because of one very simple fact - they have the wrong focus.

What do I mean by that?

They spend all their time on the "advanced" and "little" stuff, while completely neglecting the "big picture".

So What Is the "Big Picture"?

It's simple, really. The big picture is about general principles that have a much larger bearing on her sexual enjoyment than any "tricks", "moves", or "techniques" ever could.

Why Is It Better to Focus on the "Big Picture" Instead of Any Particular Moves or Techniques?

Here's why: every girl is different.

I have been with girls who loved being bitten, and girls that hated it. I have girls who loved me to tie them up and hold them down and those who wanted to be on top all the time. I have been with girls that kept begging me for sex in public and those that wouldn't do it anywhere but the bedroom.

These are the more extreme examples, but as you may be aware, sexuality is a very complex thing and we all have our own preferences for different techniques. You can probably attest to that yourself - when you're getting a blowjob, I'm sure there are certain things you like more and certain things you don't like at all.

Being focused on "moves" and "techniques" locks you into using that certain way of doing things. This results in a complete lack of flexibility and robs you of the ability to improvise and adapt to the situation. End result: you will never, ever be as good as someone who can read the situation on the fly and adapt.

I'm not saying "techniques" don't have their place, because they do. However, NO technique is "absolute" or "guaranteed". PRINCIPLES, on the other hand, are.

The Difference Between "Techniques" and "Principles"

Techniques are things that may or may not work in a specific situation. Principles are far less specific, and because of this, are more flexible and are able to be applied to any given situation. This is why they are far more useful in the bedroom.

We're not doing mathematics here - something where one plus two will always equal three. We are dealing with the human mind, which is a constantly changing, shifting, evolving mechanism, particularly sexually. What works today may not work tomorrow.

You are probably aware of this yourself. The hornier you get, the more certain things appeal to you. Something that was way too "weird" when you were not horny may seem just right in the right moment, and by the same token, what appealed to you then may be "too tame" when you're worked up.

THIS is why techniques are useless. The sexual landscape is a constantly changing, evolving lifeform. By applying the correct principles (such as building sexual tension, using foreplay appropriately, helping her relax, augmenting the physical stimulation with mental stimulation, and so on) is far more useful and powerful than any technique (such as "lick vertically up and down the clitoris") could ever be.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on techniques to give your woman an orgasm.

Article originally published here: How to Give a Woman an Orgasm.

How to Sexually Please Your Wife

Marriage is a funny thing. When it works, it's wonderful. And when things are rough, it can be a struggle to remember all the good things, and the reason why you got married in the first place.

And, let's face it, good sex is the cornerstone of a healthy, successful marriage. If things aren't right in the bedroom, it can add stress and tension to our already troubled lives that none of us really need.

The reasons you should learn to please your wife in the bedroom are pretty obvious. The better the sex she has, the more sex she will want. In addition, she will be more relaxed, easy-going, and your marriage will be much stronger and close-knit.

So, what can you to sexually please your wife, and ensure that she is sexually satisfied?

Rekindle the Romance

With all the stuff that goes on in our lives, it's easy to lose sight of the romantic part of our marriage. When you've got deadlines to meet, housework to do, kids to look after, bills to pay, and all that other stuff, somehow, taking a night off to have a night to yourselves to explore your bodies, like you used to do when you started going out, seems less important.

Don't let things get that way.

As hard as it may seem to find the time, it's something you really have to do if you want to get your sex life back on track. If your wife feels pressured or stressed during sex, it won't be any good for her.

Therefore, you have to do your best to eliminate those kinds of pressures, to ensure that she receives the maximum amount of pleasure from your sexual advances.

Taking a night off is a great technique for this. No distractions, no deadlines, no pressure - just you, her, and a night of passion.

Fire Her Up

If you don't know how to create sexual attraction and sexual tension, then you have to learn.

Since you're reading this, I'm assuming your wife hasn't been as sexually satisfied as you want her to be for a little while.

The problem here is that women almost work opposite to men. For men, the less sex they have, the more they want it. For women, their level of arousal is highest when they're getting regular, powerful, orgasmic sex.

If your wife hasn't had that kind of sex in a while, you're already fighting an uphill battle. Hence, you have to put a whole lot of effort into doing things right. However, once you give her one night of powerful, orgasmic sex, you will find the next time is far, far easier.

Therefore, to give her the kind of sexual satisfaction that she is craving, you need to give her the best possible night you can.

What do you think your chance of doing that is if she is in an environment where day in, day out, she's worrying about the kids, the washing, her job, the mortgage, and all that stuff?

Taking a night off so you can do things properly is a wise investment in your sex life. Trust me here.

Final Words

If you manage to get her very, very aroused (which is easy, provided you know the secrets behind creating a ridiculous amount of sexual tension) then you're 90% of the way there. You've set the scene for her having mind-blowing multiple orgasms, and if you've followed the directions in this article, you don't have to worry about any external factors getting in your way.

Now all you have to do is connect with her sexually, and give her powerful, intense sexual stimulation.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on How to Please Your Wife Sexually.

Article originally published here: How to Sexually Please Your Wife Tonight.

How to Please a Woman in Bed

Pleasing a woman in bed is a very complex and tricky objective.

And, frankly, most guys just don't get it.

In fact, being able to please a woman in bed - I mean REALLY please her - is a lot more than just knowing the right spots to hit to give her multiple, mind-blowing orgasms (although that certainly helps).

In a nutshell, it's being able to connect with her on a number of levels in a significant way that will give her the best night of her life.

Before you run for the hills, please understand that I'm not saying you have to be in love with each other, or anything like that. You can definitely please a woman in bed the very first time you guys sleep together. It will usually be harder to do that than to please a woman you've been seeing for a long time and know a little better, but that's to be expected - the longer you spend with someone (and the more sex you have), your sex life should improve accordingly.

So What Does "Pleasing" a Woman in Bed Entail?

I used to think that the secret to pleasing a woman sexually was all a numbers game - give them as many incredible orgasms as I could in an hour or two, and let them bask in the afterglow.

Whilst those kinds of nights were a lot of fun, for both one of us, I have been fortunate enough to have experiences and feedback since then that has proven to me that this is not the ultimate in sexual satisfaction for a woman.

The Secret

The secret to pleasing a woman in bed is, if taken at face value, rather complex. However, if we break it down to its simplest form, the whole secret can be summed up in a single word.

Passion.

As corny as it may sound to you, having that amazing, passionate moment when it's almost as if both of you are sharing the same head space is a truly miraculous moment. Whilst it does not necessarily require mutual love, there is certainly a chemistry that has to exist in order for this kind of passion to blossom.

Of course, in our day to day lives it's easy to lose the passion from many aspects of our relationship, not just the sex. Somehow in between paying bills, meeting our commitments, study, work, and family we often don't make the time we should for good sex, and settle into a dull, monotonous routine that isn't fulfilling for either party.

What You Can Do to Have Amazing Sex

The first step to having this amazing, nigh-miraculous sex and truly pleasing your woman in the bedroom is to put in the effort to ensure you have an environment in which the kind of passion I am talking about can blossom.

Try setting aside an evening to have sex. Make whatever preparations you need to to ensure you have the house to yourselves. Make sure you really set the mood - your favorite music, a romantic candlelit dinner, a bubble bath together, or even just taking some time to cuddle up on the couch and watch TV together can all do wonders to help subconsciously get you attuned to each other and build the sexual anticipation.

When the time is right you can begin some slow, sensual foreplay and eventually lead into the main event itself. One point that is very important throughout this whole process is that you have to make a real, honest effort to connect in a solid way with your partner and her wants. Try and communicate to her without words how much you want to be with her tonight and how much you want her to enjoy it. The way you look at her, the way you touch her, your eyes - all these things will be subconsciously broadcasting signals to her based on your mindset and attitude, so make sure you are coming from a place of mutual respect and friendship. At the same time, as you're the man, it is usually up to you to take control - be firm but gentle in all of your dealings with her tonight, and I guarantee she'll be worshipping you in the morning.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to please a woman in bed.

Article originally published here: The Secrets to Pleasing a Woman in Bed.

How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm

Whether you want better, longer-lasting, more frequent sex, or you just want to be able to give your woman the same incredible sexual pleasure that she gives (or that you want her to give) you, you're reading this article for one reason, and one reason only.

You want to know how to make a woman reach orgasm.

However, before we go any further, there's a fundamental flaw in this kind of thinking we have to correct.

You cannot MAKE a woman reach orgasm. You can, however, help her reach orgasm.

Some men can lead their women to orgasm, which could almost be classified as "making" her orgasm. However, the skills and expertise required to do this are quite complex. Usually, it is a last resort, because it is much easier and simpler to work with a woman, and have her help in unlocking her natural orgasmic state, than to have to do everything yourself.

The thing with leading a woman to orgasm is that you have to know exactly what you are doing. You need to know everything about female sexuality and the female sexual anatomy, how to effectively generate sexual tension, how to perform incredibly powerful foreplay, intimately know how to use all the female hot spots, and so on.

Helping a woman achieve orgasm, on the other hand, is much easier, because she will (hopefully) be somewhat attuned sexually with her body and be able to guide you, however slightly, towards what will push her over the edge.

Therefore, here are some of my best tips that you can use to give your woman incredible, multiple orgasms.

1. Communicate!

Every woman likes different things in the bedroom. Whilst you could spend hours and hours exploring her body and trying every single different technique you can think of (and you definitely should do that, at some point in your relationship), if you're just trying to get her to reach orgasm, why not try and shorten the learning curve for yourself?

If you're not sure if she likes what you're doing or not - ask her! If you wonder if she has a favorite position, let her tell you about it!

In fact, one of the best ways to communicate is through dirty talk. Not only does talking dirty add huge amounts of sexual tension to your sex, but it can also be used to get a feel for what is going right or wrong. Comments like "Do you that like, baby?" and "Oh yeah, I love it when you do that to me, it feels so good!", as well as your own creations, can go a long way to making sure you have the kinds of crazy sex you both crave.

2. Get Rid of Distractions

Women tend to think way too much during sex.

They think about all the pressures they have - deadlines for work, kids to look after, housework to do, bills to pay, how their thighs look from this angle, if their makeup is smudged, does that their butt look big in this light... and so on.

All these things get in the way of her naturally orgasmic state. Meaning, the more she's thinking, the less she's coming.

The counter to this is to retrain her mind to focus on her body and the way she's feeling. Light, sensuous touches that combine different kinds of sensations are a great way to do this. For example, running ice over a part of her body, then using your tongue (which is warm and she'll notice the contrast) is just one of the many ways you can get her to focus on the right stuff again.

3. Keep Things Fun

If she's trying too hard to orgasm, she won't. Remember that women enjoy the actual act of sex a lot - whether or not they orgasm. Obviously, you want to be able to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms as much as possible, but if she doesn't have one, it's not that big a deal.

Remember, sex is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, and pleasurable - keep it that way!

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to get a woman to reach orgasm.

Article originally published here: How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm.

How to Make a Girl Orgasm From Behind

Doggie can be one of the most sexually powerful positions two people can use. It has lots going for it - it's easy, it hits the G spot well, the woman can control how deep and what angle the penis goes into her just by shifting the angle of her body - and much more.

However, there are a few simple tricks you can use to make sure your woman is getting maximum pleasure from being taken from behind.

Trick #1: It's Like Looking In a Mirror

One of the major problems with doggie is the lack of direct physical communication you have with each other, seeing as you're looking at her backside the whole time. Whilst this is a great view, one thing that I've found that can make things even hotter is setting up a mirror and have your partner face it so that when you're doing the deed, she can watch it happen and make eye contact with you via the mirror.

Do not underestimate this. It's basically like watching porn as you're doing it, except the porn is her getting taken from behind. Using a mirror is a definite way to make things that much hotter, and that's a good thing, right?

Trick #2: Bad Girl!

For many girls, the feeling of being "used" or "dominated" that arise from this position are very powerful, and should be taken advantage of. Try spanking her, making sure to not hit too hard and contact with the most fleshy part of her backside - with practise, you should be able to make a satisfying "thwack" sound without hurting her, although it's certainly more difficult during the heat of the moment. You can also try lightly pulling her hair, but try to grab a lot of it so the force is evenly distributed over her head and it's not really hurting her. It's usually a good idea to talk to your partner about these sorts of things beforehand, as it can be quite frightening for a girl to suddenly have her partner grab hold of her hair during sex!

Trick #3: Use the Clitoris

Many girls find it far easier to orgasm from multiple stimulation than from vaginal stimulation alone. Take advantage of this fact, as her legs will be wide apart, pulling apart her vagina lips and giving you perfect access to the clitoris. Make sure you put a lot of saliva on your fingers first, though, to avoid any unpleasant feelings for her. Something I've found that works even better is to get her to do it, putting your hand over the top of hers initially to guide her if necessary. When she sees herself doing it in the mirror I guarantee she will go absolutely crazy and have one of the most powerful orgasms she's ever had in her life!

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on making her orgasm from behind.

Article originally published here: How to Make Her Orgasm From Behind.

How to Make a Girl Orgasm

I have a big problem with this article title.

Yes, the article that I wrote. The title "How to Make a Girl Orgasm".

I hate it. Want to know why?

Because you absolutely, positively, 100% cannot MAKE a girl orgasm.

BUT - you CAN help her achieve orgasm.

As a consultant (of sorts) to many guys who are frustrated with their sex life - specifically, the lack of orgasms their girl has - there is usually one incorrect belief I have to "nip in the bud" before we can deal with any REAL issues.

Sex is a two-way street. It requires effort on behalf of both parties to achieve a desired result. Hence, it is not your job to give her an orgasm nor her job to have one - it is a result obtained by both of you working together in harmony.

I'm not going to give you the tips in this article I usually do such as positions, mindset shifts, techniques and so on. If you're looking for that, visit my website or blog.

What I'm going to talk about in this article is steps you can take to ensure that your girl doesn't have anything going on that would stop her from achieving orgasm.

Possible Problem #1: She's Trying to Hard

Have you ever tried to grab wet soap, or something of a similar, slippery nature? Did you notice how the harder you squeezed it, the further away it flew?

Achieving orgasm is like that. If you focus on it, you're not going to get it. Instead, you have to just allow it to happen.

If your girl is desparately trying to have an orgasm, there's a good chance that's your problem right there. You need to tell her to relax, loosen up, and just enjoy the sexual experience - if she has an orgasm great, if not, who cares?

Don't pressure her or make her feel like you need her to have an orgasm. Tell her it doesn't matter to you - and mean it. And you know what? You've just doubled your chances of her actually having one.

Funny how things work sometimes, isn't it?

Possible Problem #2: She Won't Let Go

As you're no doubt aware, having an orgasm is a very powerful experience.

Imagine what the best orgasm you've ever had is like - and multiply it by ten.

That's a girl's orgasm. It's much better for them than it is for us.

Because it's a more powerful sensation, it can be scary. Let's face it, when we have sex, we don't care about anything but the sex. Girls are constantly worrying and obsessing about how their hair is, how their makeup is, if they look fat, and so on. This means that sometimes letting go and having an orgasm is a frightening prospect for them. When you orgasm, you can't control things sometimes. You might make weird sounds, shudder uncontrollable, make funny faces or whatever.

Reassure her. Tell her that she's sexy and that she makes you really want her. Let her know you really enjoy it when she cuts loose and lets go. Hopefully she'll get the message and let you do your thing - and herself do her thing as well.

Possible Problem #3: She Thinks Sex is Wrong

Society has brought many girls up to believe that if they are promiscuous, or enjoy sex, that they are somehow "dirty" or "immoral".

As I'm sure you're aware, nothing could be further from the truth. Good sex is an essential part of any relationship, and enjoyment of the act is crucial.

There is no easy fix to this, but you have to talk to her, and show her that you don't respect her any less because she enjoys sexual activities. I find the best way to do this is positive reinforcement - tell her you love it when she wants to try new things, suggest new positions, introduce some toys into the bedroom, whatever. Try and get her to let go of her rigid beliefs and to allow herself to feel pleasure again.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.

Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Orgasm.

How to Make a Girl Come

Imagine a sex life where regardless of how long it went for, or how hard you wanted to, you never reached orgasm.

It'd be pretty frustrating, right?

Sadly, that's what about 70% of women go through every single day.

Many men are waking up to the fact that their partner isn't getting the sexual satisfaction she craves, and to their credit, are seeking out a solution to the problem. However, many of you reading this article are probably still unsure of how to give a girl multiple, mind-blowing orgasms that she know she desperately needs.

That's where I come in. In this article, I'm going to show you exactly how you can make your girl come quickly, easily, and effortlessly, using a simple, idiot-proof three-step formula.

Step 1: Build Sexual Tension

With all that goes on in our lives these days, it's easy for us to lose touch with our inherent sexuality. For guys, this usually isn't a big problem - we're so highly sexually charged to begin with, that it doesn't exactly take a lot for it to awaken.

Women, on the other hand, are a whole different story.

As opposed to men, who are generally more sexually charged the longer it's been since they've had sex, women work the opposite way. That is to say, they are at their horniest when they are having regular orgasms.

In order to make a woman orgasm quickly and effortlessly, we have to re-awaken her sexuality. We do this first mentally, then physically. The mental component is called sexual tension.

Building sexual tension, whilst easy when you know how, is a whole subject in and of itself. For the purposes of this article, just understand that it involves getting a girl's mind to be receptive to any sexual advances you make. Ways to do this may include light touching, a certain look, saying certain things, flirting, and much more.

Once you have built a decent amount of sexual tension, you can move on to the next step.

Step 2: Foreplay

Being able to perform powerful, arousing foreplay is one of the best skills a man can have in the bedroom.

If sexual tension is the key to awakening a woman's mental sexuality, foreplay is the key to re-aquainting her body with her sexual side. Again, there really isn't enough room in this article to be able to reveal the secrets to amazing foreplay, but essentially it revolves around "firing up" her nerves and putting her body in a highly sexually charged state.

Step 3: Direct Sexual Stimulation

If you have built sexual tension correctly, and have given your girl amazing foreplay, she's 90% of the way to having amazing, powerful orgasms already.

Having said that, obviously the actual physical stimulation is still extremely vital in making her come.

Again, unfortunately, there just isn't room in this article to give a thorough and in-depth explanation of how to use the clitoris, G-spot, and vaginal nerve endings in order to satisfy a woman's sexual cravings. We don't have the space to get into a discussion of primary and secondary stimulation, or the multitude of "hot spots" that are part of the female body, or how to use mental stimulation in tandem with physical stimulation in order to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms.

What you have just read is the basic skeletal outline of everything you need to know in order to make a girl come quickly and effortlessly. If you apply this roadmap, there is no doubt in my mind that your girl will have the most powerful orgasms of her life.


Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl come.

Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Come.

How to GIve Your Girlfriend an Orgasm

Before We Begin

This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.

Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.

Basically, you need to know the basics. You can brush up on them by reading the other articles I have written on this site, or, alternatively, visiting my blog (the link is at the end of the article), in which all the articles are reprinted for your convenience.

What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?

Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.

What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.

Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success

Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labelled these as numerical steps, as follows.

1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.

2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.

3. You need to be fairly knowledgable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be pounding her (excuse the pun) with multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or pumping her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the details for now.

Making It Happen

So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.

Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be ultra-horny before you even get into the bedroom (for an explanation of how to create sexual tension, check out my e-book, Incredible In Bed. The link's at the end of this article). The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her hornier than she's ever been before.

Once she's really, really, really horny, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.

Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, licking her pussy (or both if that works for you), or having sex in her favorite position.

The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.

If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nibbles tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. DO whatever you can to send her wild.

The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - bang her REALLY hard (but not so hard you hurt her).'

All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will come more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.

If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.

One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. Things like "Oh yeah baby, I'll bet that feels so good. Come really hard for me. I want to feel you come all over my (cock/finger/face)." The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.

If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.

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How to Give a Girl a G Spot Orgasm

I'm going to make some assumptions here, so bear with me.

First of all, I'm going to assume that when you say "unforgettable orgasm" you mean an insanely powerful, sheet-twisting, breath-taking, mind-blowing orgasm that is going to give her mental images to masturbate to for the next few months at least.

Secondly, I'm going to assume you've done your homework and have a pretty thorough understanding of basic sexual concepts, like how to build sexual tension, the importance of foreplay (and how to use foreplay correctly), as well as knowing her quite intimately. That is, you need to know her personal hot zones, what makes her go absolutely wild, and what her particular fantasies and fetishes are.

Finally, your dirty talk skills need to be up to par. You need to understand the principles of triggers, command words, and all that fun stuff.

These are the basic tools you need to give your a girl a truly unforgettable orgasm. Now we are going to cover the techniques.

Baby Steps

You can't expect a girl to have an insanely good orgasm right off the bat. You have to work her up to it. Begin by giving her a "nice" orgasm, and gradually build it up to multiples and stronger orgasms. Eventually she will be amazingly aroused and very, very sexually open to any kind of sexual stimulus.

This is when you want to pull out the big guns.

All Together Now

When you are ready to give her that killer orgasm, it's time to put together everything you know about her.

Her hottest spots. Her favorite things. Her wildest fantasies. Your best dirty talk.

It's all got to come together for this to work.

Make sure she's getting strong, rhythmic stimulation, preferably to her clitoris, vagina, and G Spot all at the same time. Possible positions that may work well for this include (but are not limited to) doggie, and the good old missionary (with a pillow or too under her buttocks to help elevate her hips at a good angle so your penis hits her G Spot). Whilst you are having sex with her get her to moisten her fingers (saliva works well) and play with her clitoris.

Don't Stop the Music

One of the most important points is you absolutely cannot let up on the stimulation here. She might have some orgasms - that's fine, keep going. Eventually the stimulation will reach a crescendo and she's about to have a BIG one.

Now's the time to use the dirty talk triggers.

Tell her how much you want her to orgasm. Tell her how aroused it will make you when she does. Tell her she's about to orgasm really, really hard. Of course, substitute your own wording, which will no doubt be far more powerful than the "clean" language I have to use in the confines of this article.
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Article originally published here: How to Give a Girl an Orgasm.

How to Give a Girl a G Spot Orgasm

It's no secret that some of the most powerful orgasms come through a woman's G Spot.

Many women say that the longest-lasting, most intense and powerful orgasms of their lives were had through G spot stimulation.

However, many men and women are completely clueless about how they can duplicate this feat for several reasons. Sometimes they don't know how to find the G spot (believe me, this is VERY common) and even if they're one of the rare few that can find it, most people don't know how it can be used for maximum pleasure.

Fear not - in this article I'm going to show you how you can give your girl the most incredibly powerful, multi-orgasmic, mind-blowing G spot orgasms she's ever experienced.

Drawing the G Spot Out of Hiding

There's a good reason why many folks find it so difficult to find a woman's G Spot - it's a shy little bugger.

In fact, the G Spot only appears when the female is in a state of heightened arousal. And I mean "heightened". As in "Oh my God if I don't have sex soon I'm going to climb the walls" state of heightened arousal.

Putting a woman in this kind of state is simple enough for any man who has mastered the basics of building sexual tension, good foreplay, and knows how the female mind and body work.

If you don't know all this stuff, then I recommend you learn it. Obviously there isn't enough room in this article to go into this particular subject, so for now, I'm going to assume you know all this stuff.

How to Find the G Spot

Now you've drawn it out of "hiding", your next task is to find the G Spot.

Many people think that finding the G Spot is very difficult and hit-or-miss. Those people are wrong. Here's a technique you can use to effortlessly find her G Spot every time:

Insert your finger(s) into her vagina. One is usually enough, as initially at least you want to be able to maneuver in there fairly easily. Once your finger is inserted fairly deep, although not too deep (we don't want to cause discomfort), turn your wrist so that your palm is facing towards the ceiling. Now crook your finger as though you were using a "come here" motion. You should feel an area of tissue that is slightly rougher and "spongier" than the rest of the vagina.

This is her G Spot.

Giving Her the G Spot Orgasm

Now that you've found her G Spot, it's time to go to work and give her an incredibly powerful orgasm.

Some people think that once they've found the G Spot, all they have to do is stimulate it and their partner will have an earth-shattering orgasm.

*BZZT*. Wrong.

The G Spot, for all its wonder, is not a magical switch that gives a woman instant orgasms. In fact, due to the incredibly intense sensations she will be feeling, all the "other stuff" - making her feel comfortable, pushing her "hot" buttons, performing secondary stimulation correctly, and even using her clitoris and vagina to enhance her orgasm are all arguably even more important now than they were before.

In fact, all the regular tenets that apply to giving a girl amazing orgasms still apply here. However, to ensure that you are getting the most of the G Spot, it's a good idea to make sure you select a position which allows you to hit it effectively.

Whilst the position you use will vary depending on your body shapes, and your inherent preferences, some simple, powerful positions that allow for maximum G Spot pleasure include doggie style, and even the humble missionary position (although for maximum effect, put a pillow or two under her butt to change the angle of her hips).

Giving a girl a G spot orgasm can be a complex and tricky task. But if you know the secrets to building sexual tension, how to perform amazing foreplay, and have an intimate knowledge of the female sexual anatomy and know her to use her mind to unlock her inner sexuality, then you'll find it incredibly easy to give her powerful, lasting G Spot orgasms every single night.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

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Article originally published here: How to Give a Girl an Orgasm Through Her G Spot.

Friday, February 13, 2009

How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms

I've always envied women.

Men like myself can have one orgasm, then we're done. Sure, there are things like hypnosis and tantra that can theoretically make you have an orgasmic experience without ejaculating, but basically speaking, we get one shot (no pun intended).

Women can just keep coming, and coming, and coming.

Unfortunately, however, it is incredibly difficult to find the kind of guy who knows how to give her that incredible level of orgasmic pleasure that many women will only be able to fantasize about.

Therefore, in this article, I'm going to show you some of my best tips to ensure that you know how to give a female multiple, mind-blowing orgasms any time you want.

Learn to Walk Before You Run

Can you consistently give your partner powerful orgasms?

If not, then what makes you think you will be able to give her MULTIPLE orgasms?

Giving a woman multiple orgasms is relatively simple, IF you know what you're doing. Essentially, you just have to do everything you normally do better. There are some extra tricks - which we'll discuss in a minute - but for now, if you can't give your partner really good single orgasms on a consistent basis, then you'd be better off honing your skills until you can do that before you learn this advanced technique.

The Secrets to Giving Women Multiple Orgasms

As I mentioned earlier, there aren't really any secrets to giving a woman multiple orgasms. You just have to do what you do to give her a single orgasm - with a few modifications.

Firstly, she has to be in a state of heightened arousal. I mean REALLY heightened. If you haven't mastered the basics - namely, if you don't know how to create an incredible amount of sexual tension, and have really, really good foreplay that leaves her begging for more, well, you need to learn how. I'm not trying to be mean, here - that's just the way it is.

Once she's really aroused, the fun begins.

It doesn't really matter how you give your female friend multiple orgasms. I suggest you choose a method which you have found she is very receptive to, and also one in which you have sufficient stamina to be able to keep the sexual stimulation at high levels.

I've done it using my mouth, fingers, doggy-style, missionary, and much more. Use whatever works for you (and her).

Once you have chosen your preferred method, it's pretty simple from here on out. Essentially, you want to gradually increase the sexual stimulation she's receiving until she orgasms. Then - and here's the trick to multiples - give her a moment or two to have the orgasm wash over her, then keep going until she has another one.

Rinse and repeat.

The key to good multiple female orgasms is all about timing. You want to ensure that you give her enough sexual stimulation to put her "over the edge", wait until she's JUST finished riding the "Wave" of the orgasm, then start again. If you do things right, the time it takes her to build to orgasm should gradually decrease. Keep this up long enough, and the lines between orgasms will start to blur, and she'll be in one continuous state of orgasm.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

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How to Bring a Girl to Orgasm in 3 Simple Steps

Learning how to bring a woman to orgasm is one of the biggest needs in our society today.

And really, it's no small wonder. After all, 75% of women report that they do not orgasm during sex at all, let alone regularly.

If you didn't orgasm during sex, EVER, how much do you think you would look forward to it? Hell, 25% of women have never had an orgasm AT ALL, EVER - even by themselves.

This is leading to a ridiculous amount of sexual frustration all over the world, not just from women, but from men as well, since women are finding they are gradually less and less motivated to have sex - since, after all, it's not really that good for them.

If you are in this situation, don't worry - in this article I'm lay a game plan for you to follow to bring your girl to orgasm quickly, easily, and effortlessly.

Step 1: Build Sexual Tension

Sexual tension is, essentially, the force that makes you want to have sex. Girls tend to have a far longer "warm up" period than men do, so therefore, for them, sexual tension and arousal two separate things, as opposed to men, in which as soon as we think there's a possibility we'll get laid, we're aroused.

For a woman, sexual tension proceeds arousal. Therefore, the more sexual tension you can build, the more aroused she'll be. The more aroused she'll be, the wetter she will be, the more sensitive her whole body will be, and the easier and quicker it will be to bring her to orgasm.

Therefore, if you are planning to give her the incredible, mind-blowing sexual pleasure that she craves, you have to be damn good at building sexual tension.

Step 2: Get Her to Focus On the Right Things

Most women are very, very out of sync with their sexuality, both mentally and physically. Therefore, in order for you to be able to give her wild, screaming, multiple orgasms, you have to first re-focus her mind and body so she is more in tune with her natural, orgasmic state.

Assuming you have built a decent amount of sexual tension, the next step is to perform really, really good foreplay. There's a lot of tricks to good foreplay, and obviously I don't have the room here to disclose them all. But one tip that I can give you is that you need to start off slowly, gently, yet firmly.

Don't instantly go for the vagina. That part of her body needs to be addressed AFTER she is back in touch with her sexual side. Start by kissing and caressing her lips, neck, earlobes, shoulders, breasts, nipples, stomach, inner thighs, the palms of her hands, and so forth. Begin very gently and slowly, yet still firmly, and gradually build up the speed and intensity.

The trick to doing this right is to learn to listen to her body. A true master of giving orgasms knows how to interpret a moan, a sharp intake of breath, the way a girl is gyrating, and all that other stuff in order to give her exactly what she wants - without her even having to ask.

Step 3: Position is Everything

If you've done everything right up to this point, then you're left with the easiest part of all - the actual sex.

Exactly what position and stimulation methods (clitoral, G spot, or vaginal, or a combination there of) will work best for you will largely depend on you and your partner's likes, body shapes, your penis size, your penis shape, her fetishes and fantasies, and much, much more.

The best advice I can give you is to make sure that whatever position you choose, you make sure you do it well. Know what kind of techniques you can use from that position. Make sure you are both comfortable and can sustain it for a long period of time.

If you do all these things correctly I guarantee that you will have absolutely no trouble bringing your girl to orgasm quickly and easily, every time.

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Article originally published here: How to Bring a Girl to Orgasm.

How to Be Good In Bed With a Girl - How to Give Her the Best Sex She's Ever Had!

We've all, at some time or another, had a close female friend who has told us about her latest sexual exploits.

And every now and then, she'll talk about the guy that was "good in bed".

I say guy, because, for most girls, there's usually only the one. After all, guys who know their way around the bedroom aren't usually easy to find.

So what, exactly, makes a guy qualified as "good in bed"? Is it the size of his, er, "equipment"? Is it how many orgasms he is able to give her? Is it the fact that he has remarkable sexual stamina?

No, no, and no.

These things may help, sure. Then again, they may not. Being well endowed myself I can tell you it doesn't always work out as well as you might hope (some girls just can't handle it). And some of the best sex I've ever had (and given) has clocked in at under ten minutes.

And, contrary to what you may think, orgasms are not the be-all and end-all for a woman. Although they are a nice bonus.

Being good in bed with a girl is something that has a lot of different factors. Being able to check one box won't necessarily signify anything significant - it's a situation where the whole is definitely greater than the sum of its parts.

Some General Principles

*Care about her pleasure. It seems like a basic rule, and most of you reading this will probably have figured this one out already (or else why would you be here?) but sometimes in the throes of passion we can forget. If you want to make a good impression on her, make sure she is taken care of before you worry about yourself. Pay attention and communicate about what she does and doesn't like, and endeavour to give her pleasure before you seek it for yourself.

*Don't be a wuss. Whilst I'm not advocating being a chauvinist pig, there is millions of years of genetic programming in our bodies that some things just can't override - especially during a primitive, primal act like sex. Take the lead and tell the girl what you want them to do, and be the one to make the first moves and suggest positions. Believe me, if a girl has a problem with what you are doing, she will make her objection known very plainly - and if you obey her wishes and stop when she asks, odds are she won't make a big deal about it and will just chalk it up to a communication error. And if she doesn't - do you really want to be hanging out with her anyway?

*Be confident. If you're worried about if your gut is showing, or if you are big enough, or that you're going to ejaculate prematurely, DON'T. These kinds of things come through very plainly and is a sure-fire way to kill the mood you worked so hard to establish.

*Make sure you talk to her. Tell her how hot she is, how good she makes you feel - if you are feeling bold, try sprinkling a little dirty talk into the mix and see if she reacts in a good way. If she does, keep using it - especially as a psychological trigger to push her "over the edge" when she's about to climax.

More importantly than all this, just have fun and enjoy the experience. It's sex, not a calculus exam. If you bump elbows, or funny noises happen, just laugh about it and keep going. After all, isn't that what good sex is all about - enjoyment?

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

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Article originally published here: How to be Good In Bed.