Is there a "best" position in which to give a girl an orgasm?
Ultimately, no. Every girl is different, and has different likes, dislikes, turn-ons and turn-offs, and personal preferences, which means that finding which position(s) will work best to get her off is primarily a matter of trial and error.
However, in order to make things a bit easier on you, I thought I would talk about some of the positions I have found that have a very high success rate in regards to helping a girl achieve orgasm. If it's your first time with a girl, or even if you just haven't had much experience with this particular woman, try trying a few of these out in the one session and see if any are particularly successful.
Position #1: Cowgirl
The cowgirl position is one of the most simple, effective sexual positions for female stimulation out there. Essentially, you lay on your back, and she straddles you while kneeling (facing towards you). This will allow her to bend forward to change the angle that your penis hits her vaginal wall, making it easier for her to guide it to her G Spot. It also allows her to take in as much or as little of you as she wants, by raising or lowering her body via her legs. On top of all this (no pun intended), the position lends itself to a decent amount of visual communication and intimacy, and also has the bonus of not requiring you to work too hard! What more can you ask for?
Position #2/3: Variations on the Missionary Position
When most people envision missionary, they think of dry, drull, ho-hum sex that can't end fast enough. And that's a shame, really, because you can easily adapt some slight, simple changes and allow the missionary position to metamorphose into something really exciting.
Firstly, try putting a pillow under her butt. This will raise the angle of her hips, allowing your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G Spot. Obviously this is with you on top, as is the next variation.
For variation number two, experiment with putting her legs over your shoulders. This will tighten the vaginal opening, making it feel much tighter for you, as well as much more intense for her. Be careful in this position however, as if you are bigger than average it can be pretty easy to accidentally hit the cervical wall, which is a sure-fire mood killer.
Position #4: Doggie-Style
Sex from behind, like all the other positions discussed thus far, has many distinct advantages. In addition to allowing her (or you, if your arms are long enough) to play with her clitoris during intercourse, it allows her to basically set the angle, speed, depth, and other factors to her liking. In addition it lends itself well to quick, powerful thrusting, not to mention some more "kinky" additions such as spanking and hair-pulling.
So the next time you have sex with your girl, try out one or two of these positions. Take note of how reacts. Talk to her about what she liked and didn't like about it. Eventually you will find one that really, really works for you - in which case you will at least have a base-line to compare future sexual experiences with her with.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on best positions for orgasm.
Article originally published here: The Best Position for a Girl to Orgasm.
Saturday, February 14, 2009
Female Orgasm Tips
If you are reading this article, I can assume fairly safely that your partner isn't having as many mind-blowing orgasms as you would like her to.
Don't feel bad. 70% of women in the United States have never actually had an orgasm. If you have given your girl at least one at some point, then you should feel good - you're already ahead of the curve. That's not to say these tips won't help you give your female MORE orgasms, but you must be doing something right.
However, if you haven't, don't stress, because within this article are some simple, easy-to-apply tips on how to give any female a mind-blowing orgasm (or multiple orgasms, for that matter) that you can apply tonight and instantly see improvement in your approach.
Having said all that, here are some of my best tips to help you give a female an orgasm.
1. Does she masturbate? Female masturbation is a VERY helpful thing. If she knows what she likes, she can tell YOU what she likes. If she doesn't, it's still possible to figure it out - heck, I've given plenty of women their first orgasms. However, doing so requires an advanced set of skills which I don't have the room to cover here. However, I do cover it in my ebook, and there's a link at the end of the article if you're interested in checking it out.
2. Is she relaxed during sex? Being too tense or worried about something (for example, the mortgage, car repayments, the kids, her job, college, whatever) will severely limit her ability to reach climax. Furthermore, if she's worried about the fact she's not coming, or trying to make herself reach orgasm, then it's almost guaranteed that she won't reach it. Try to tell her to relax, breathe deep, and just enjoy the experience, whatever happens.
3. Have you given her enough foreplay? Foreplay is arguably even more important than the sex itself. Make sure that before you enter her she is very wet and her vagina is red and almost swollen (the classic analogy of a flower opening is a good one). This will ensure that a decent amount of blood has rushed down there, which will heighten her sensations and, yes, you guessed it - make it far easier for you to give her that orgasm.
4. Try different positions and stimulation. Just pounding away will rarely achieve anything. Make sure you engage all her sexual organs - the most important one being her mind! Whether she likes dirty talk, wants to be kissed passionately, bitten on the neck, have you play with her nipples with your free hand (far easier when she is on top so you don't have to use your hands and arms to balance, admittedly) or whatever her particular fetish is. The best way to find out: ask.
If you can get all these things to work simultaneously, then it will be nearly impossible for you not to give her the greatest orgasm of her life.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on female orgasm tips.
Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Tips.
Don't feel bad. 70% of women in the United States have never actually had an orgasm. If you have given your girl at least one at some point, then you should feel good - you're already ahead of the curve. That's not to say these tips won't help you give your female MORE orgasms, but you must be doing something right.
However, if you haven't, don't stress, because within this article are some simple, easy-to-apply tips on how to give any female a mind-blowing orgasm (or multiple orgasms, for that matter) that you can apply tonight and instantly see improvement in your approach.
Having said all that, here are some of my best tips to help you give a female an orgasm.
1. Does she masturbate? Female masturbation is a VERY helpful thing. If she knows what she likes, she can tell YOU what she likes. If she doesn't, it's still possible to figure it out - heck, I've given plenty of women their first orgasms. However, doing so requires an advanced set of skills which I don't have the room to cover here. However, I do cover it in my ebook, and there's a link at the end of the article if you're interested in checking it out.
2. Is she relaxed during sex? Being too tense or worried about something (for example, the mortgage, car repayments, the kids, her job, college, whatever) will severely limit her ability to reach climax. Furthermore, if she's worried about the fact she's not coming, or trying to make herself reach orgasm, then it's almost guaranteed that she won't reach it. Try to tell her to relax, breathe deep, and just enjoy the experience, whatever happens.
3. Have you given her enough foreplay? Foreplay is arguably even more important than the sex itself. Make sure that before you enter her she is very wet and her vagina is red and almost swollen (the classic analogy of a flower opening is a good one). This will ensure that a decent amount of blood has rushed down there, which will heighten her sensations and, yes, you guessed it - make it far easier for you to give her that orgasm.
4. Try different positions and stimulation. Just pounding away will rarely achieve anything. Make sure you engage all her sexual organs - the most important one being her mind! Whether she likes dirty talk, wants to be kissed passionately, bitten on the neck, have you play with her nipples with your free hand (far easier when she is on top so you don't have to use your hands and arms to balance, admittedly) or whatever her particular fetish is. The best way to find out: ask.
If you can get all these things to work simultaneously, then it will be nearly impossible for you not to give her the greatest orgasm of her life.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on female orgasm tips.
Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Tips.
Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm
There are lots of "easy" ways to make a girl have an orgasm. But what, exactly, are the easiest?
As usual this is somewhat of a loaded question. Every girl is different, hence, the "easiest" way to give a girl an orgasm will be different for every single woman.
Having said that, in this article I hope to cover some simple, effective points which will provide you with a good starting point to begin your investigations on what exactly will give your girl the easiest orgasms possible.
Involve Her Most Powerful Sexual Organ
If you're wondering what I'm referring to, it isn't the clitoris, G-Spot, or anything like that.
It's her mind.
That's right. If you want to learn one of the biggest keys to making her orgasm quickly and easily, you need to learn exactly how to engage her mind and get her sexually excited mentally. Talk dirty to her. Tell her exactly what you're going to do to her. Make sure you use your words to draw attention to what you want her to focus on - visual sights, feelings, telling you what feels good - whatever. The point is to ensure that she's as involved as possible in the experience, whilst also accelerating her arousal.
Making Life Easy on Yourself
On the subject of arousal, it may surprise you to know that the secret to making a girl orgasm quickly and easily has far less to do with your actual "moves" than you may expect. In reality, the fact of the matter is that the more "prep work" you do - as in, the more aroused you can make her before you start trying to make her orgasm - the quicker and easier she will orgasm.
To put it another way, you really shouldn't skimp on building sexual arousal, sexual tension, and having powerful foreplay. If you do, you're only making things more difficult for yourself later in the session, and potentially giving both yourself and your partner a very frustrating experience.
Learn From Your Mistakes
Finally, if you are fortunate enough to have the ability to have regular sexual contact with one girl, please pay attention during sex. Learn what she does and doesn't like. What turns her on and what turns her off. Her favorite positions, her fetishes, her fantasies. Armed with this kind of information you should be able to make her orgasm quicker and easier every time you have sex, and theoretically sex for both of you should gradually get better and better.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on easy ways to give a girl orgasms.
Article originally published here: Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm.
As usual this is somewhat of a loaded question. Every girl is different, hence, the "easiest" way to give a girl an orgasm will be different for every single woman.
Having said that, in this article I hope to cover some simple, effective points which will provide you with a good starting point to begin your investigations on what exactly will give your girl the easiest orgasms possible.
Involve Her Most Powerful Sexual Organ
If you're wondering what I'm referring to, it isn't the clitoris, G-Spot, or anything like that.
It's her mind.
That's right. If you want to learn one of the biggest keys to making her orgasm quickly and easily, you need to learn exactly how to engage her mind and get her sexually excited mentally. Talk dirty to her. Tell her exactly what you're going to do to her. Make sure you use your words to draw attention to what you want her to focus on - visual sights, feelings, telling you what feels good - whatever. The point is to ensure that she's as involved as possible in the experience, whilst also accelerating her arousal.
Making Life Easy on Yourself
On the subject of arousal, it may surprise you to know that the secret to making a girl orgasm quickly and easily has far less to do with your actual "moves" than you may expect. In reality, the fact of the matter is that the more "prep work" you do - as in, the more aroused you can make her before you start trying to make her orgasm - the quicker and easier she will orgasm.
To put it another way, you really shouldn't skimp on building sexual arousal, sexual tension, and having powerful foreplay. If you do, you're only making things more difficult for yourself later in the session, and potentially giving both yourself and your partner a very frustrating experience.
Learn From Your Mistakes
Finally, if you are fortunate enough to have the ability to have regular sexual contact with one girl, please pay attention during sex. Learn what she does and doesn't like. What turns her on and what turns her off. Her favorite positions, her fetishes, her fantasies. Armed with this kind of information you should be able to make her orgasm quicker and easier every time you have sex, and theoretically sex for both of you should gradually get better and better.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on easy ways to give a girl orgasms.
Article originally published here: Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm.
Female Orgasm Secrets
Back in my younger days, before I got into writing about this kind of stuff for a living, I used to talk to a lot of girls about their sex lives. In fact, I still do, but it sounded cooler talking about my youth.
In any case, there were a lot of girls who confided in me that they thought there was something wrong with them sexually, because they simply could not climax. They told me their partners had read all these manuals on how to please a woman sexually and knew all the hottest techniques - so why were they having problems?
Quite simply, because sex is not about techniques. It's about simple, useful, common-sense principles.
Here's a secret about the female orgasm that most people won't tell you - it's VERY easy to bring about.
Provided, of course, you know what you're doing.
So many people these days can't see the forest for the trees. They are too busy trying fancy techniques (such as using an exact spiral motion with a very specific amount of pressure one inch below the clitoris, or whatever) that they've forgotten the basic rules about sexual gratification (assuming they ever knew them in the first place).
Sex is supposed to feel good for both parties. It's kind of important for the survival of the human race, so it makes sense that the urge is hardwired in our DNA to be one of the most physically pleasurable experiences we can go through.
So having said all that, here are some of the best kept secrets about the female orgasm. Read them, memorize them, apply them.
1. You Set Yourself Up for Success or Failure Before you Take Your Clothes Off
Building sexual tension and sexual attraction is the #1 step to giving a female an amazingly powerful orgasm. If you can't get this right, then anything else you try is doomed before it's even had a chance to get off the ground.
2. She Wants It More Than You (If You Do It Right)
Anyone who tells you women have a lower sex drive than men is lying. Sure, women who have never had amazing sex, or don't get it very often don't have a very high sex drive. Often, however, when they are receiving really good sex, they want it more than us. Think of a woman's sex drive as the reverse of a man's - the more she gets it, the more she wants it. Hence, never be afraid to initiate things, because if you can build sexual tension and attraction correctly, she won't say no.
3. You Need to Be the Man
In this day and age of political correctness, way too many guys don't want to be too manly. Splitting the check is one thing. Being a wuss in the bedroom is something else. It is hardcoded into a woman's DNA to want a man who will take a firm but gentle hold on the situation and lead her to where she wants to go. A few decades of feminism can't fight millions of years of natural selection. And before you send in the hatemail, please understand, I believe respect and equality is paramount to any good relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm going to donate my testicles to science and not be willing to take the lead in a sexual encounter.
4. Take Your Time
Foreplay is important for many, many reasons. Please, make sure you take your time and worship each part of the female body accordingly. Explore it, treasure it, caress it. Spending the time and effort on foreplay ensures that she will be much, much more receptive to your efforts during the main event.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on secrets of the female orgasm.
Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Secrets.
In any case, there were a lot of girls who confided in me that they thought there was something wrong with them sexually, because they simply could not climax. They told me their partners had read all these manuals on how to please a woman sexually and knew all the hottest techniques - so why were they having problems?
Quite simply, because sex is not about techniques. It's about simple, useful, common-sense principles.
Here's a secret about the female orgasm that most people won't tell you - it's VERY easy to bring about.
Provided, of course, you know what you're doing.
So many people these days can't see the forest for the trees. They are too busy trying fancy techniques (such as using an exact spiral motion with a very specific amount of pressure one inch below the clitoris, or whatever) that they've forgotten the basic rules about sexual gratification (assuming they ever knew them in the first place).
Sex is supposed to feel good for both parties. It's kind of important for the survival of the human race, so it makes sense that the urge is hardwired in our DNA to be one of the most physically pleasurable experiences we can go through.
So having said all that, here are some of the best kept secrets about the female orgasm. Read them, memorize them, apply them.
1. You Set Yourself Up for Success or Failure Before you Take Your Clothes Off
Building sexual tension and sexual attraction is the #1 step to giving a female an amazingly powerful orgasm. If you can't get this right, then anything else you try is doomed before it's even had a chance to get off the ground.
2. She Wants It More Than You (If You Do It Right)
Anyone who tells you women have a lower sex drive than men is lying. Sure, women who have never had amazing sex, or don't get it very often don't have a very high sex drive. Often, however, when they are receiving really good sex, they want it more than us. Think of a woman's sex drive as the reverse of a man's - the more she gets it, the more she wants it. Hence, never be afraid to initiate things, because if you can build sexual tension and attraction correctly, she won't say no.
3. You Need to Be the Man
In this day and age of political correctness, way too many guys don't want to be too manly. Splitting the check is one thing. Being a wuss in the bedroom is something else. It is hardcoded into a woman's DNA to want a man who will take a firm but gentle hold on the situation and lead her to where she wants to go. A few decades of feminism can't fight millions of years of natural selection. And before you send in the hatemail, please understand, I believe respect and equality is paramount to any good relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm going to donate my testicles to science and not be willing to take the lead in a sexual encounter.
4. Take Your Time
Foreplay is important for many, many reasons. Please, make sure you take your time and worship each part of the female body accordingly. Explore it, treasure it, caress it. Spending the time and effort on foreplay ensures that she will be much, much more receptive to your efforts during the main event.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on secrets of the female orgasm.
Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Secrets.
How to Make a Girl Orgasm
For many girls, having an orgasm at all can be very difficult. Let alone being able to have them relatively easily, quickly, and without effort.
However, this is not the way it has to be. In fact, I have helped many women uncover their natural potential of being able to orgasm consistently and easily. And I'm about to share some of those very secrets with you right now.
The first step to solving a problem is to identify what the true problem really is. The most common cause of a girl's inability to orgasm usually comes down to one or more of a few possible choices. Either she is not receiving the kind of stimulation she needs (which can be dependent on many different variables), or she is not aroused enough to be able to orgasm.
Whilst I have written many articles (and part of my e-book) on common mistakes men make regarding sexual stimulation for women, it isn't really the main cause. Sure, improving your technique in this regard may make things better for her, but it is far rarer to be a deal-breaker than the fact that she isn't aroused enough.
If she isn't aroused enough, again, there are two possible scenarios. The first is that she is not receiving enough foreplay from you, or not the right type or foreplay. In essence, you just aren't turning her on. If that's the case, then you need to learn and understand the principles of foreplay, sexual attraction and sexual tension. Again, that is beyond the scope of this article.
The other possibility, and one that is certainly prevalent in our society, is one that is a little harder to deal with.
Self-sabotage.
Without delving into the historical, political, and religious reasoning behind it (a subject on which whole books can, and have been written) there is one thing you need to know.
Many women have an ingrained fear of allowing themselves to be sexually expressive.
Society at large still has a very strong notion that any women that enjoy themselves sexually are "dirty". Add this to the fact that women are normally extremely self-conscious about their image and how they portray themselves (something you will have observed with painful accuracy if you've ever tried to help a woman select her dress for a party) and you have a very debilitating mental state that makes it almost impossible for a woman to orgasm.
When we have sex, we generally are thinking about how good it feels, how sexy the woman in front of us is, that sort of thing.
Way too many women are having thoughts like "Does my butt look big from this angle? Is my makeup still okay? God, my hair's a mess! If I let him do me from behind am I going to lose his respect?"... And so on.
I think you can imagine how difficult it is to orgasm when you're thinking like that.
Therefore, in order to help a woman bring out her buried sexuality, you have to help her understand and embrace that it's okay to let loose during sex. Tell her how good it makes you feel to see her enjoying herself. Tell her how sexy she looks from that angle.
If you can build up her self-confidence and help her understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not to worry about, then you will have eliminated one of the biggest factors that inhibits a woman's sexual enjoyment - and reap the benefits for a long time to come.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: Make Your Girl Orgasm.
However, this is not the way it has to be. In fact, I have helped many women uncover their natural potential of being able to orgasm consistently and easily. And I'm about to share some of those very secrets with you right now.
The first step to solving a problem is to identify what the true problem really is. The most common cause of a girl's inability to orgasm usually comes down to one or more of a few possible choices. Either she is not receiving the kind of stimulation she needs (which can be dependent on many different variables), or she is not aroused enough to be able to orgasm.
Whilst I have written many articles (and part of my e-book) on common mistakes men make regarding sexual stimulation for women, it isn't really the main cause. Sure, improving your technique in this regard may make things better for her, but it is far rarer to be a deal-breaker than the fact that she isn't aroused enough.
If she isn't aroused enough, again, there are two possible scenarios. The first is that she is not receiving enough foreplay from you, or not the right type or foreplay. In essence, you just aren't turning her on. If that's the case, then you need to learn and understand the principles of foreplay, sexual attraction and sexual tension. Again, that is beyond the scope of this article.
The other possibility, and one that is certainly prevalent in our society, is one that is a little harder to deal with.
Self-sabotage.
Without delving into the historical, political, and religious reasoning behind it (a subject on which whole books can, and have been written) there is one thing you need to know.
Many women have an ingrained fear of allowing themselves to be sexually expressive.
Society at large still has a very strong notion that any women that enjoy themselves sexually are "dirty". Add this to the fact that women are normally extremely self-conscious about their image and how they portray themselves (something you will have observed with painful accuracy if you've ever tried to help a woman select her dress for a party) and you have a very debilitating mental state that makes it almost impossible for a woman to orgasm.
When we have sex, we generally are thinking about how good it feels, how sexy the woman in front of us is, that sort of thing.
Way too many women are having thoughts like "Does my butt look big from this angle? Is my makeup still okay? God, my hair's a mess! If I let him do me from behind am I going to lose his respect?"... And so on.
I think you can imagine how difficult it is to orgasm when you're thinking like that.
Therefore, in order to help a woman bring out her buried sexuality, you have to help her understand and embrace that it's okay to let loose during sex. Tell her how good it makes you feel to see her enjoying herself. Tell her how sexy she looks from that angle.
If you can build up her self-confidence and help her understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not to worry about, then you will have eliminated one of the biggest factors that inhibits a woman's sexual enjoyment - and reap the benefits for a long time to come.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: Make Your Girl Orgasm.
Ways to Make a Woman Orgasm
Before I reveal to you the 3 best ways to make your woman orgasm, there's something important you need to know.
In my line of work, I talk to a lot of women on a fairly regular basis. One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when it comes to sex (and believe me, there's a lot of them) is that they expect their "moves" will work on every single girl they come across.
Clearly, this is completely inaccurate. Every woman is different and they all have their own individual likes and dislikes, fetishes, fantasies and so forth. One sure-fire way to turn a girl off is to stop listening to her and her body and just go through the motions with moves that you think will rock her world.
Having said all that, the techniques that follow have been very successful in my (and my clients') endeavours for pleasing women in the bedroom. However, remember, the golden rule of sex is to pay attention to what your partner says, and what her body tells you. Discard this rule at your own peril!
1. Kissing Her on the Lips Between the Hips
Good cunilingus is one of the most amazing sensations a woman will ever feel. Unfortunately however, many women have an inherent discomfort associated with this act. Half the time when a girl is getting head there are all sorts of sexually non-conductive thoughts going through her head. Things like "Do I smell down there?" or "What if I thrust too hard and break his nose" or "It's been way too long since I shaved" really can kill the mood. To combat this, tell her every step of the way how much you want to do it, how much it turns you on, and how much you are enjoying it, and so on.
Also be aware that everything down there is incredibly sensitive. Whilst you definitely want to focus attention on the clitoris, using too much force or even spending too much time on it can be a very uncomfortable sensation. Try and ensure that you give the other parts of her vagina a decent amount of attention as well, although it is usually the clitoris that will send her "over the edge", so be aware to focus more attention on that when she is closer to climaxing.
2. Pillows - Not Just for Your Head
Many people give up way too easily on the missionary position, accusing it of being "bland", "vanilla", and "boring".
Whilst I personally have never felt that way (nor has any woman I've been with), it is true that for the female the missionary position can often be lacking in sexual stimulation. To remedy this, put a pillow under her butt. This will angle her hips upward slightly, which will allow your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G Spot. Needless to say, this is a good thing.
This missionary position also allows you to be in control of her stimulation, which can be useful if she tends to lose control of her muscle control when she gets close to climax. Not only does it allow you to go as fast, slow, deep, or gently as you like, you are also in a position where it doesn't take a great deal of energy for thrusting, which allows you to go for longer without tiring out - essential for the women who take a long time to reach climax.
3. A Different Kind of Pillow Talk
"Dirty Talk" is often overlooked by couples, with disastrous results in the bedroom. Before you hit the back button in your browser, let's make one thing clear - dirty talk does NOT have to be lifted straight out of a bad 80's porno (and in fact, if it is, it will probably do more harm than good).
Talking dirty doesn't even mean you have to use profanity, let alone describe things in the kinds of detail that would make a miner blush (although you may find that kind of talk useful, too). At its core dirty talk works as a kind of mental aid, helping you keep your woman's mind focused on the sensations of the sexual intercourse, instead of worrying about how big her butt is or how much noise she's making. It also allows you to gauge her reaction based on what you are doing to her ("How does that feel, baby?") and finally acts as a "mental trigger". Basically, when she gets very close to climax, telling her that you want her to orgasm not only helps increase her arousal and get her across the finish line, it allows you to subconsciously reassure her that you do indeed want her to orgasm, which will help get around any subsconsciously ingrained fears of it she may have (such as worrying that she will say or look silly).
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on ways to make women orgasm.
Article originally published here: Best Ways to Make a Woman Orgasm.
In my line of work, I talk to a lot of women on a fairly regular basis. One of the biggest mistakes that guys make when it comes to sex (and believe me, there's a lot of them) is that they expect their "moves" will work on every single girl they come across.
Clearly, this is completely inaccurate. Every woman is different and they all have their own individual likes and dislikes, fetishes, fantasies and so forth. One sure-fire way to turn a girl off is to stop listening to her and her body and just go through the motions with moves that you think will rock her world.
Having said all that, the techniques that follow have been very successful in my (and my clients') endeavours for pleasing women in the bedroom. However, remember, the golden rule of sex is to pay attention to what your partner says, and what her body tells you. Discard this rule at your own peril!
1. Kissing Her on the Lips Between the Hips
Good cunilingus is one of the most amazing sensations a woman will ever feel. Unfortunately however, many women have an inherent discomfort associated with this act. Half the time when a girl is getting head there are all sorts of sexually non-conductive thoughts going through her head. Things like "Do I smell down there?" or "What if I thrust too hard and break his nose" or "It's been way too long since I shaved" really can kill the mood. To combat this, tell her every step of the way how much you want to do it, how much it turns you on, and how much you are enjoying it, and so on.
Also be aware that everything down there is incredibly sensitive. Whilst you definitely want to focus attention on the clitoris, using too much force or even spending too much time on it can be a very uncomfortable sensation. Try and ensure that you give the other parts of her vagina a decent amount of attention as well, although it is usually the clitoris that will send her "over the edge", so be aware to focus more attention on that when she is closer to climaxing.
2. Pillows - Not Just for Your Head
Many people give up way too easily on the missionary position, accusing it of being "bland", "vanilla", and "boring".
Whilst I personally have never felt that way (nor has any woman I've been with), it is true that for the female the missionary position can often be lacking in sexual stimulation. To remedy this, put a pillow under her butt. This will angle her hips upward slightly, which will allow your penis to give rhythmic stimulation to her G Spot. Needless to say, this is a good thing.
This missionary position also allows you to be in control of her stimulation, which can be useful if she tends to lose control of her muscle control when she gets close to climax. Not only does it allow you to go as fast, slow, deep, or gently as you like, you are also in a position where it doesn't take a great deal of energy for thrusting, which allows you to go for longer without tiring out - essential for the women who take a long time to reach climax.
3. A Different Kind of Pillow Talk
"Dirty Talk" is often overlooked by couples, with disastrous results in the bedroom. Before you hit the back button in your browser, let's make one thing clear - dirty talk does NOT have to be lifted straight out of a bad 80's porno (and in fact, if it is, it will probably do more harm than good).
Talking dirty doesn't even mean you have to use profanity, let alone describe things in the kinds of detail that would make a miner blush (although you may find that kind of talk useful, too). At its core dirty talk works as a kind of mental aid, helping you keep your woman's mind focused on the sensations of the sexual intercourse, instead of worrying about how big her butt is or how much noise she's making. It also allows you to gauge her reaction based on what you are doing to her ("How does that feel, baby?") and finally acts as a "mental trigger". Basically, when she gets very close to climax, telling her that you want her to orgasm not only helps increase her arousal and get her across the finish line, it allows you to subconsciously reassure her that you do indeed want her to orgasm, which will help get around any subsconsciously ingrained fears of it she may have (such as worrying that she will say or look silly).
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on ways to make women orgasm.
Article originally published here: Best Ways to Make a Woman Orgasm.
Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm
Writing this article has proven to be quite a challenge.
You see, whilst there are certainly steps that have to be followed in order to give a girl a powerful, lasting orgasm, the actual nuances of those steps can vary so wildly from girl to girl that it can be very difficult in order to pin it down to any one particular formula.
Thankfully, however, I have enough experience under my belt to be able to make the distinction between necessary steps and personal preference. And in this article I am going to share with you my basic "road map" that I employ in order to give females incredible, powerful orgasms.
Step One: Build Sexual Tension
Simply put, sexual tension is making a girl "want you".
It is a simple concept, but in practise, it can be more difficult than you may think to be able to employ it skillfully in order to bring a girl to an incredibly receptive and sexual state of mind.
Essentially, in order to build sexual tension, you have to shift her mind's focus from whatever is going on in her world, to sex. Specifically, sex with you.
This can be done in several ways. I often use light touches and sexual innuendo (or, if I know the girl well enough, straight-out dirty talk) in order to really ramp up the sexual tension. Realistically, there are loads of ways to build sexual tension effectively, and a complete and thorough (or even brief) discussion of them is really beyond the scope of this article.
Step Two: The Body Follows the Mind
Once you have attuned her mind to sex, your next step is to do a similar thing with her body. We are going to do this through foreplay.
Most guys get foreplay wrong because they think it's about sexual pleasure. It definitely can be that, too, but before we get to that point, we have to "re-focus" the body to become accustomed to a sexual touch.
This means that you should start off with light, flowing, teasing movements. Run your hands over her body. Trace the shape of her breasts with your lips. Let her feel your hot breath on her neck.
The point here is to get the touch receptors and nerves in her skin "fired up" and responding to sexual contact. Again, there is a lot more to it than this brief synopsis, but that is at least the general idea.
Step Three: Provide the Stimulation That Will Bring her to Orgasm
Believe it or not, if you're followed the instructions laid out so far, and done the previous two phases really well, you're already 80% of the way there. In fact, regardless of what you do now, your girl will probably have a powerful, lasting orgasm.
But that's no reason to slack off now, is it?
There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to giving a girl a powerful, earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasm. You have to have a solid understanding of the female sexual anatomy, including how to find and use the clitoris, and G Spot. You need to know the female "hot spots" (there are over twenty) in order to ensure that you maximise her pleasure. You need to have a decent knowledge of which positions are best used for certain types of stimulation, and how to position yourself for maximum stimulation.
That's not to mention being able to read the subtle verbal and physical signals a girl will use in order to tell you what she wants, how to communicate effectively in the bedroom, and what her own personal preferences are.
Thankfully, you've already done the "hard yards" by now, so all you have to do is to ensure that she receives the necessary stimulation to "push her over the edge" and make her orgasm powerfully. Make sure you focus on constantly stimulating her mind as well as her body, and ensure that you remove any negative mental "self-talk" she may have going on.
If you follow these instructions, and carry out the suggestions I have given you correctly, then I guarantee you there is no way that you will be unable to give your girl a powerful, lasting, multiple-orgasms every single night.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on instructions to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm.
You see, whilst there are certainly steps that have to be followed in order to give a girl a powerful, lasting orgasm, the actual nuances of those steps can vary so wildly from girl to girl that it can be very difficult in order to pin it down to any one particular formula.
Thankfully, however, I have enough experience under my belt to be able to make the distinction between necessary steps and personal preference. And in this article I am going to share with you my basic "road map" that I employ in order to give females incredible, powerful orgasms.
Step One: Build Sexual Tension
Simply put, sexual tension is making a girl "want you".
It is a simple concept, but in practise, it can be more difficult than you may think to be able to employ it skillfully in order to bring a girl to an incredibly receptive and sexual state of mind.
Essentially, in order to build sexual tension, you have to shift her mind's focus from whatever is going on in her world, to sex. Specifically, sex with you.
This can be done in several ways. I often use light touches and sexual innuendo (or, if I know the girl well enough, straight-out dirty talk) in order to really ramp up the sexual tension. Realistically, there are loads of ways to build sexual tension effectively, and a complete and thorough (or even brief) discussion of them is really beyond the scope of this article.
Step Two: The Body Follows the Mind
Once you have attuned her mind to sex, your next step is to do a similar thing with her body. We are going to do this through foreplay.
Most guys get foreplay wrong because they think it's about sexual pleasure. It definitely can be that, too, but before we get to that point, we have to "re-focus" the body to become accustomed to a sexual touch.
This means that you should start off with light, flowing, teasing movements. Run your hands over her body. Trace the shape of her breasts with your lips. Let her feel your hot breath on her neck.
The point here is to get the touch receptors and nerves in her skin "fired up" and responding to sexual contact. Again, there is a lot more to it than this brief synopsis, but that is at least the general idea.
Step Three: Provide the Stimulation That Will Bring her to Orgasm
Believe it or not, if you're followed the instructions laid out so far, and done the previous two phases really well, you're already 80% of the way there. In fact, regardless of what you do now, your girl will probably have a powerful, lasting orgasm.
But that's no reason to slack off now, is it?
There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to giving a girl a powerful, earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasm. You have to have a solid understanding of the female sexual anatomy, including how to find and use the clitoris, and G Spot. You need to know the female "hot spots" (there are over twenty) in order to ensure that you maximise her pleasure. You need to have a decent knowledge of which positions are best used for certain types of stimulation, and how to position yourself for maximum stimulation.
That's not to mention being able to read the subtle verbal and physical signals a girl will use in order to tell you what she wants, how to communicate effectively in the bedroom, and what her own personal preferences are.
Thankfully, you've already done the "hard yards" by now, so all you have to do is to ensure that she receives the necessary stimulation to "push her over the edge" and make her orgasm powerfully. Make sure you focus on constantly stimulating her mind as well as her body, and ensure that you remove any negative mental "self-talk" she may have going on.
If you follow these instructions, and carry out the suggestions I have given you correctly, then I guarantee you there is no way that you will be unable to give your girl a powerful, lasting, multiple-orgasms every single night.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on instructions to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm.
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