For many girls, having an orgasm at all can be very difficult. Let alone being able to have them relatively easily, quickly, and without effort.
However, this is not the way it has to be. In fact, I have helped many women uncover their natural potential of being able to orgasm consistently and easily. And I'm about to share some of those very secrets with you right now.
The first step to solving a problem is to identify what the true problem really is. The most common cause of a girl's inability to orgasm usually comes down to one or more of a few possible choices. Either she is not receiving the kind of stimulation she needs (which can be dependent on many different variables), or she is not aroused enough to be able to orgasm.
Whilst I have written many articles (and part of my e-book) on common mistakes men make regarding sexual stimulation for women, it isn't really the main cause. Sure, improving your technique in this regard may make things better for her, but it is far rarer to be a deal-breaker than the fact that she isn't aroused enough.
If she isn't aroused enough, again, there are two possible scenarios. The first is that she is not receiving enough foreplay from you, or not the right type or foreplay. In essence, you just aren't turning her on. If that's the case, then you need to learn and understand the principles of foreplay, sexual attraction and sexual tension. Again, that is beyond the scope of this article.
The other possibility, and one that is certainly prevalent in our society, is one that is a little harder to deal with.
Self-sabotage.
Without delving into the historical, political, and religious reasoning behind it (a subject on which whole books can, and have been written) there is one thing you need to know.
Many women have an ingrained fear of allowing themselves to be sexually expressive.
Society at large still has a very strong notion that any women that enjoy themselves sexually are "dirty". Add this to the fact that women are normally extremely self-conscious about their image and how they portray themselves (something you will have observed with painful accuracy if you've ever tried to help a woman select her dress for a party) and you have a very debilitating mental state that makes it almost impossible for a woman to orgasm.
When we have sex, we generally are thinking about how good it feels, how sexy the woman in front of us is, that sort of thing.
Way too many women are having thoughts like "Does my butt look big from this angle? Is my makeup still okay? God, my hair's a mess! If I let him do me from behind am I going to lose his respect?"... And so on.
I think you can imagine how difficult it is to orgasm when you're thinking like that.
Therefore, in order to help a woman bring out her buried sexuality, you have to help her understand and embrace that it's okay to let loose during sex. Tell her how good it makes you feel to see her enjoying herself. Tell her how sexy she looks from that angle.
If you can build up her self-confidence and help her understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not to worry about, then you will have eliminated one of the biggest factors that inhibits a woman's sexual enjoyment - and reap the benefits for a long time to come.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: Make Your Girl Orgasm.
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Saturday, February 14, 2009
How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm
Whether you want better, longer-lasting, more frequent sex, or you just want to be able to give your woman the same incredible sexual pleasure that she gives (or that you want her to give) you, you're reading this article for one reason, and one reason only.
You want to know how to make a woman reach orgasm.
However, before we go any further, there's a fundamental flaw in this kind of thinking we have to correct.
You cannot MAKE a woman reach orgasm. You can, however, help her reach orgasm.
Some men can lead their women to orgasm, which could almost be classified as "making" her orgasm. However, the skills and expertise required to do this are quite complex. Usually, it is a last resort, because it is much easier and simpler to work with a woman, and have her help in unlocking her natural orgasmic state, than to have to do everything yourself.
The thing with leading a woman to orgasm is that you have to know exactly what you are doing. You need to know everything about female sexuality and the female sexual anatomy, how to effectively generate sexual tension, how to perform incredibly powerful foreplay, intimately know how to use all the female hot spots, and so on.
Helping a woman achieve orgasm, on the other hand, is much easier, because she will (hopefully) be somewhat attuned sexually with her body and be able to guide you, however slightly, towards what will push her over the edge.
Therefore, here are some of my best tips that you can use to give your woman incredible, multiple orgasms.
1. Communicate!
Every woman likes different things in the bedroom. Whilst you could spend hours and hours exploring her body and trying every single different technique you can think of (and you definitely should do that, at some point in your relationship), if you're just trying to get her to reach orgasm, why not try and shorten the learning curve for yourself?
If you're not sure if she likes what you're doing or not - ask her! If you wonder if she has a favorite position, let her tell you about it!
In fact, one of the best ways to communicate is through dirty talk. Not only does talking dirty add huge amounts of sexual tension to your sex, but it can also be used to get a feel for what is going right or wrong. Comments like "Do you that like, baby?" and "Oh yeah, I love it when you do that to me, it feels so good!", as well as your own creations, can go a long way to making sure you have the kinds of crazy sex you both crave.
2. Get Rid of Distractions
Women tend to think way too much during sex.
They think about all the pressures they have - deadlines for work, kids to look after, housework to do, bills to pay, how their thighs look from this angle, if their makeup is smudged, does that their butt look big in this light... and so on.
All these things get in the way of her naturally orgasmic state. Meaning, the more she's thinking, the less she's coming.
The counter to this is to retrain her mind to focus on her body and the way she's feeling. Light, sensuous touches that combine different kinds of sensations are a great way to do this. For example, running ice over a part of her body, then using your tongue (which is warm and she'll notice the contrast) is just one of the many ways you can get her to focus on the right stuff again.
3. Keep Things Fun
If she's trying too hard to orgasm, she won't. Remember that women enjoy the actual act of sex a lot - whether or not they orgasm. Obviously, you want to be able to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms as much as possible, but if she doesn't have one, it's not that big a deal.
Remember, sex is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, and pleasurable - keep it that way!
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to get a woman to reach orgasm.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm.
You want to know how to make a woman reach orgasm.
However, before we go any further, there's a fundamental flaw in this kind of thinking we have to correct.
You cannot MAKE a woman reach orgasm. You can, however, help her reach orgasm.
Some men can lead their women to orgasm, which could almost be classified as "making" her orgasm. However, the skills and expertise required to do this are quite complex. Usually, it is a last resort, because it is much easier and simpler to work with a woman, and have her help in unlocking her natural orgasmic state, than to have to do everything yourself.
The thing with leading a woman to orgasm is that you have to know exactly what you are doing. You need to know everything about female sexuality and the female sexual anatomy, how to effectively generate sexual tension, how to perform incredibly powerful foreplay, intimately know how to use all the female hot spots, and so on.
Helping a woman achieve orgasm, on the other hand, is much easier, because she will (hopefully) be somewhat attuned sexually with her body and be able to guide you, however slightly, towards what will push her over the edge.
Therefore, here are some of my best tips that you can use to give your woman incredible, multiple orgasms.
1. Communicate!
Every woman likes different things in the bedroom. Whilst you could spend hours and hours exploring her body and trying every single different technique you can think of (and you definitely should do that, at some point in your relationship), if you're just trying to get her to reach orgasm, why not try and shorten the learning curve for yourself?
If you're not sure if she likes what you're doing or not - ask her! If you wonder if she has a favorite position, let her tell you about it!
In fact, one of the best ways to communicate is through dirty talk. Not only does talking dirty add huge amounts of sexual tension to your sex, but it can also be used to get a feel for what is going right or wrong. Comments like "Do you that like, baby?" and "Oh yeah, I love it when you do that to me, it feels so good!", as well as your own creations, can go a long way to making sure you have the kinds of crazy sex you both crave.
2. Get Rid of Distractions
Women tend to think way too much during sex.
They think about all the pressures they have - deadlines for work, kids to look after, housework to do, bills to pay, how their thighs look from this angle, if their makeup is smudged, does that their butt look big in this light... and so on.
All these things get in the way of her naturally orgasmic state. Meaning, the more she's thinking, the less she's coming.
The counter to this is to retrain her mind to focus on her body and the way she's feeling. Light, sensuous touches that combine different kinds of sensations are a great way to do this. For example, running ice over a part of her body, then using your tongue (which is warm and she'll notice the contrast) is just one of the many ways you can get her to focus on the right stuff again.
3. Keep Things Fun
If she's trying too hard to orgasm, she won't. Remember that women enjoy the actual act of sex a lot - whether or not they orgasm. Obviously, you want to be able to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms as much as possible, but if she doesn't have one, it's not that big a deal.
Remember, sex is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, and pleasurable - keep it that way!
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to get a woman to reach orgasm.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm.
How to Make a Girl Orgasm From Behind
Doggie can be one of the most sexually powerful positions two people can use. It has lots going for it - it's easy, it hits the G spot well, the woman can control how deep and what angle the penis goes into her just by shifting the angle of her body - and much more.
However, there are a few simple tricks you can use to make sure your woman is getting maximum pleasure from being taken from behind.
Trick #1: It's Like Looking In a Mirror
One of the major problems with doggie is the lack of direct physical communication you have with each other, seeing as you're looking at her backside the whole time. Whilst this is a great view, one thing that I've found that can make things even hotter is setting up a mirror and have your partner face it so that when you're doing the deed, she can watch it happen and make eye contact with you via the mirror.
Do not underestimate this. It's basically like watching porn as you're doing it, except the porn is her getting taken from behind. Using a mirror is a definite way to make things that much hotter, and that's a good thing, right?
Trick #2: Bad Girl!
For many girls, the feeling of being "used" or "dominated" that arise from this position are very powerful, and should be taken advantage of. Try spanking her, making sure to not hit too hard and contact with the most fleshy part of her backside - with practise, you should be able to make a satisfying "thwack" sound without hurting her, although it's certainly more difficult during the heat of the moment. You can also try lightly pulling her hair, but try to grab a lot of it so the force is evenly distributed over her head and it's not really hurting her. It's usually a good idea to talk to your partner about these sorts of things beforehand, as it can be quite frightening for a girl to suddenly have her partner grab hold of her hair during sex!
Trick #3: Use the Clitoris
Many girls find it far easier to orgasm from multiple stimulation than from vaginal stimulation alone. Take advantage of this fact, as her legs will be wide apart, pulling apart her vagina lips and giving you perfect access to the clitoris. Make sure you put a lot of saliva on your fingers first, though, to avoid any unpleasant feelings for her. Something I've found that works even better is to get her to do it, putting your hand over the top of hers initially to guide her if necessary. When she sees herself doing it in the mirror I guarantee she will go absolutely crazy and have one of the most powerful orgasms she's ever had in her life!
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on making her orgasm from behind.
Article originally published here: How to Make Her Orgasm From Behind.
However, there are a few simple tricks you can use to make sure your woman is getting maximum pleasure from being taken from behind.
Trick #1: It's Like Looking In a Mirror
One of the major problems with doggie is the lack of direct physical communication you have with each other, seeing as you're looking at her backside the whole time. Whilst this is a great view, one thing that I've found that can make things even hotter is setting up a mirror and have your partner face it so that when you're doing the deed, she can watch it happen and make eye contact with you via the mirror.
Do not underestimate this. It's basically like watching porn as you're doing it, except the porn is her getting taken from behind. Using a mirror is a definite way to make things that much hotter, and that's a good thing, right?
Trick #2: Bad Girl!
For many girls, the feeling of being "used" or "dominated" that arise from this position are very powerful, and should be taken advantage of. Try spanking her, making sure to not hit too hard and contact with the most fleshy part of her backside - with practise, you should be able to make a satisfying "thwack" sound without hurting her, although it's certainly more difficult during the heat of the moment. You can also try lightly pulling her hair, but try to grab a lot of it so the force is evenly distributed over her head and it's not really hurting her. It's usually a good idea to talk to your partner about these sorts of things beforehand, as it can be quite frightening for a girl to suddenly have her partner grab hold of her hair during sex!
Trick #3: Use the Clitoris
Many girls find it far easier to orgasm from multiple stimulation than from vaginal stimulation alone. Take advantage of this fact, as her legs will be wide apart, pulling apart her vagina lips and giving you perfect access to the clitoris. Make sure you put a lot of saliva on your fingers first, though, to avoid any unpleasant feelings for her. Something I've found that works even better is to get her to do it, putting your hand over the top of hers initially to guide her if necessary. When she sees herself doing it in the mirror I guarantee she will go absolutely crazy and have one of the most powerful orgasms she's ever had in her life!
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on making her orgasm from behind.
Article originally published here: How to Make Her Orgasm From Behind.
How to Make a Girl Orgasm
I have a big problem with this article title.
Yes, the article that I wrote. The title "How to Make a Girl Orgasm".
I hate it. Want to know why?
Because you absolutely, positively, 100% cannot MAKE a girl orgasm.
BUT - you CAN help her achieve orgasm.
As a consultant (of sorts) to many guys who are frustrated with their sex life - specifically, the lack of orgasms their girl has - there is usually one incorrect belief I have to "nip in the bud" before we can deal with any REAL issues.
Sex is a two-way street. It requires effort on behalf of both parties to achieve a desired result. Hence, it is not your job to give her an orgasm nor her job to have one - it is a result obtained by both of you working together in harmony.
I'm not going to give you the tips in this article I usually do such as positions, mindset shifts, techniques and so on. If you're looking for that, visit my website or blog.
What I'm going to talk about in this article is steps you can take to ensure that your girl doesn't have anything going on that would stop her from achieving orgasm.
Possible Problem #1: She's Trying to Hard
Have you ever tried to grab wet soap, or something of a similar, slippery nature? Did you notice how the harder you squeezed it, the further away it flew?
Achieving orgasm is like that. If you focus on it, you're not going to get it. Instead, you have to just allow it to happen.
If your girl is desparately trying to have an orgasm, there's a good chance that's your problem right there. You need to tell her to relax, loosen up, and just enjoy the sexual experience - if she has an orgasm great, if not, who cares?
Don't pressure her or make her feel like you need her to have an orgasm. Tell her it doesn't matter to you - and mean it. And you know what? You've just doubled your chances of her actually having one.
Funny how things work sometimes, isn't it?
Possible Problem #2: She Won't Let Go
As you're no doubt aware, having an orgasm is a very powerful experience.
Imagine what the best orgasm you've ever had is like - and multiply it by ten.
That's a girl's orgasm. It's much better for them than it is for us.
Because it's a more powerful sensation, it can be scary. Let's face it, when we have sex, we don't care about anything but the sex. Girls are constantly worrying and obsessing about how their hair is, how their makeup is, if they look fat, and so on. This means that sometimes letting go and having an orgasm is a frightening prospect for them. When you orgasm, you can't control things sometimes. You might make weird sounds, shudder uncontrollable, make funny faces or whatever.
Reassure her. Tell her that she's sexy and that she makes you really want her. Let her know you really enjoy it when she cuts loose and lets go. Hopefully she'll get the message and let you do your thing - and herself do her thing as well.
Possible Problem #3: She Thinks Sex is Wrong
Society has brought many girls up to believe that if they are promiscuous, or enjoy sex, that they are somehow "dirty" or "immoral".
As I'm sure you're aware, nothing could be further from the truth. Good sex is an essential part of any relationship, and enjoyment of the act is crucial.
There is no easy fix to this, but you have to talk to her, and show her that you don't respect her any less because she enjoys sexual activities. I find the best way to do this is positive reinforcement - tell her you love it when she wants to try new things, suggest new positions, introduce some toys into the bedroom, whatever. Try and get her to let go of her rigid beliefs and to allow herself to feel pleasure again.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Orgasm.
Yes, the article that I wrote. The title "How to Make a Girl Orgasm".
I hate it. Want to know why?
Because you absolutely, positively, 100% cannot MAKE a girl orgasm.
BUT - you CAN help her achieve orgasm.
As a consultant (of sorts) to many guys who are frustrated with their sex life - specifically, the lack of orgasms their girl has - there is usually one incorrect belief I have to "nip in the bud" before we can deal with any REAL issues.
Sex is a two-way street. It requires effort on behalf of both parties to achieve a desired result. Hence, it is not your job to give her an orgasm nor her job to have one - it is a result obtained by both of you working together in harmony.
I'm not going to give you the tips in this article I usually do such as positions, mindset shifts, techniques and so on. If you're looking for that, visit my website or blog.
What I'm going to talk about in this article is steps you can take to ensure that your girl doesn't have anything going on that would stop her from achieving orgasm.
Possible Problem #1: She's Trying to Hard
Have you ever tried to grab wet soap, or something of a similar, slippery nature? Did you notice how the harder you squeezed it, the further away it flew?
Achieving orgasm is like that. If you focus on it, you're not going to get it. Instead, you have to just allow it to happen.
If your girl is desparately trying to have an orgasm, there's a good chance that's your problem right there. You need to tell her to relax, loosen up, and just enjoy the sexual experience - if she has an orgasm great, if not, who cares?
Don't pressure her or make her feel like you need her to have an orgasm. Tell her it doesn't matter to you - and mean it. And you know what? You've just doubled your chances of her actually having one.
Funny how things work sometimes, isn't it?
Possible Problem #2: She Won't Let Go
As you're no doubt aware, having an orgasm is a very powerful experience.
Imagine what the best orgasm you've ever had is like - and multiply it by ten.
That's a girl's orgasm. It's much better for them than it is for us.
Because it's a more powerful sensation, it can be scary. Let's face it, when we have sex, we don't care about anything but the sex. Girls are constantly worrying and obsessing about how their hair is, how their makeup is, if they look fat, and so on. This means that sometimes letting go and having an orgasm is a frightening prospect for them. When you orgasm, you can't control things sometimes. You might make weird sounds, shudder uncontrollable, make funny faces or whatever.
Reassure her. Tell her that she's sexy and that she makes you really want her. Let her know you really enjoy it when she cuts loose and lets go. Hopefully she'll get the message and let you do your thing - and herself do her thing as well.
Possible Problem #3: She Thinks Sex is Wrong
Society has brought many girls up to believe that if they are promiscuous, or enjoy sex, that they are somehow "dirty" or "immoral".
As I'm sure you're aware, nothing could be further from the truth. Good sex is an essential part of any relationship, and enjoyment of the act is crucial.
There is no easy fix to this, but you have to talk to her, and show her that you don't respect her any less because she enjoys sexual activities. I find the best way to do this is positive reinforcement - tell her you love it when she wants to try new things, suggest new positions, introduce some toys into the bedroom, whatever. Try and get her to let go of her rigid beliefs and to allow herself to feel pleasure again.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Orgasm.
How to Make a Girl Come
Imagine a sex life where regardless of how long it went for, or how hard you wanted to, you never reached orgasm.
It'd be pretty frustrating, right?
Sadly, that's what about 70% of women go through every single day.
Many men are waking up to the fact that their partner isn't getting the sexual satisfaction she craves, and to their credit, are seeking out a solution to the problem. However, many of you reading this article are probably still unsure of how to give a girl multiple, mind-blowing orgasms that she know she desperately needs.
That's where I come in. In this article, I'm going to show you exactly how you can make your girl come quickly, easily, and effortlessly, using a simple, idiot-proof three-step formula.
Step 1: Build Sexual Tension
With all that goes on in our lives these days, it's easy for us to lose touch with our inherent sexuality. For guys, this usually isn't a big problem - we're so highly sexually charged to begin with, that it doesn't exactly take a lot for it to awaken.
Women, on the other hand, are a whole different story.
As opposed to men, who are generally more sexually charged the longer it's been since they've had sex, women work the opposite way. That is to say, they are at their horniest when they are having regular orgasms.
In order to make a woman orgasm quickly and effortlessly, we have to re-awaken her sexuality. We do this first mentally, then physically. The mental component is called sexual tension.
Building sexual tension, whilst easy when you know how, is a whole subject in and of itself. For the purposes of this article, just understand that it involves getting a girl's mind to be receptive to any sexual advances you make. Ways to do this may include light touching, a certain look, saying certain things, flirting, and much more.
Once you have built a decent amount of sexual tension, you can move on to the next step.
Step 2: Foreplay
Being able to perform powerful, arousing foreplay is one of the best skills a man can have in the bedroom.
If sexual tension is the key to awakening a woman's mental sexuality, foreplay is the key to re-aquainting her body with her sexual side. Again, there really isn't enough room in this article to be able to reveal the secrets to amazing foreplay, but essentially it revolves around "firing up" her nerves and putting her body in a highly sexually charged state.
Step 3: Direct Sexual Stimulation
If you have built sexual tension correctly, and have given your girl amazing foreplay, she's 90% of the way to having amazing, powerful orgasms already.
Having said that, obviously the actual physical stimulation is still extremely vital in making her come.
Again, unfortunately, there just isn't room in this article to give a thorough and in-depth explanation of how to use the clitoris, G-spot, and vaginal nerve endings in order to satisfy a woman's sexual cravings. We don't have the space to get into a discussion of primary and secondary stimulation, or the multitude of "hot spots" that are part of the female body, or how to use mental stimulation in tandem with physical stimulation in order to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms.
What you have just read is the basic skeletal outline of everything you need to know in order to make a girl come quickly and effortlessly. If you apply this roadmap, there is no doubt in my mind that your girl will have the most powerful orgasms of her life.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl come.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Come.
It'd be pretty frustrating, right?
Sadly, that's what about 70% of women go through every single day.
Many men are waking up to the fact that their partner isn't getting the sexual satisfaction she craves, and to their credit, are seeking out a solution to the problem. However, many of you reading this article are probably still unsure of how to give a girl multiple, mind-blowing orgasms that she know she desperately needs.
That's where I come in. In this article, I'm going to show you exactly how you can make your girl come quickly, easily, and effortlessly, using a simple, idiot-proof three-step formula.
Step 1: Build Sexual Tension
With all that goes on in our lives these days, it's easy for us to lose touch with our inherent sexuality. For guys, this usually isn't a big problem - we're so highly sexually charged to begin with, that it doesn't exactly take a lot for it to awaken.
Women, on the other hand, are a whole different story.
As opposed to men, who are generally more sexually charged the longer it's been since they've had sex, women work the opposite way. That is to say, they are at their horniest when they are having regular orgasms.
In order to make a woman orgasm quickly and effortlessly, we have to re-awaken her sexuality. We do this first mentally, then physically. The mental component is called sexual tension.
Building sexual tension, whilst easy when you know how, is a whole subject in and of itself. For the purposes of this article, just understand that it involves getting a girl's mind to be receptive to any sexual advances you make. Ways to do this may include light touching, a certain look, saying certain things, flirting, and much more.
Once you have built a decent amount of sexual tension, you can move on to the next step.
Step 2: Foreplay
Being able to perform powerful, arousing foreplay is one of the best skills a man can have in the bedroom.
If sexual tension is the key to awakening a woman's mental sexuality, foreplay is the key to re-aquainting her body with her sexual side. Again, there really isn't enough room in this article to be able to reveal the secrets to amazing foreplay, but essentially it revolves around "firing up" her nerves and putting her body in a highly sexually charged state.
Step 3: Direct Sexual Stimulation
If you have built sexual tension correctly, and have given your girl amazing foreplay, she's 90% of the way to having amazing, powerful orgasms already.
Having said that, obviously the actual physical stimulation is still extremely vital in making her come.
Again, unfortunately, there just isn't room in this article to give a thorough and in-depth explanation of how to use the clitoris, G-spot, and vaginal nerve endings in order to satisfy a woman's sexual cravings. We don't have the space to get into a discussion of primary and secondary stimulation, or the multitude of "hot spots" that are part of the female body, or how to use mental stimulation in tandem with physical stimulation in order to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms.
What you have just read is the basic skeletal outline of everything you need to know in order to make a girl come quickly and effortlessly. If you apply this roadmap, there is no doubt in my mind that your girl will have the most powerful orgasms of her life.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl come.
Article originally published here: How to Make a Girl Come.
How to GIve Your Girlfriend an Orgasm
Before We Begin
This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.
Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.
Basically, you need to know the basics. You can brush up on them by reading the other articles I have written on this site, or, alternatively, visiting my blog (the link is at the end of the article), in which all the articles are reprinted for your convenience.
What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?
Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.
What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.
Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success
Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labelled these as numerical steps, as follows.
1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.
2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.
3. You need to be fairly knowledgable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be pounding her (excuse the pun) with multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or pumping her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the details for now.
Making It Happen
So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.
Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be ultra-horny before you even get into the bedroom (for an explanation of how to create sexual tension, check out my e-book, Incredible In Bed. The link's at the end of this article). The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her hornier than she's ever been before.
Once she's really, really, really horny, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.
Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, licking her pussy (or both if that works for you), or having sex in her favorite position.
The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.
If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nibbles tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. DO whatever you can to send her wild.
The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - bang her REALLY hard (but not so hard you hurt her).'
All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will come more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.
If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.
One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. Things like "Oh yeah baby, I'll bet that feels so good. Come really hard for me. I want to feel you come all over my (cock/finger/face)." The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.
If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give Your Girlfriends Orgasms.
This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.
Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.
Basically, you need to know the basics. You can brush up on them by reading the other articles I have written on this site, or, alternatively, visiting my blog (the link is at the end of the article), in which all the articles are reprinted for your convenience.
What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?
Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.
What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.
Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success
Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labelled these as numerical steps, as follows.
1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.
2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.
3. You need to be fairly knowledgable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be pounding her (excuse the pun) with multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or pumping her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the details for now.
Making It Happen
So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.
Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be ultra-horny before you even get into the bedroom (for an explanation of how to create sexual tension, check out my e-book, Incredible In Bed. The link's at the end of this article). The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her hornier than she's ever been before.
Once she's really, really, really horny, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.
Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, licking her pussy (or both if that works for you), or having sex in her favorite position.
The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.
If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nibbles tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. DO whatever you can to send her wild.
The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - bang her REALLY hard (but not so hard you hurt her).'
All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will come more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.
If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.
One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. Things like "Oh yeah baby, I'll bet that feels so good. Come really hard for me. I want to feel you come all over my (cock/finger/face)." The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.
If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give Your Girlfriends Orgasms.
How to Give a Girl a G Spot Orgasm
I'm going to make some assumptions here, so bear with me.
First of all, I'm going to assume that when you say "unforgettable orgasm" you mean an insanely powerful, sheet-twisting, breath-taking, mind-blowing orgasm that is going to give her mental images to masturbate to for the next few months at least.
Secondly, I'm going to assume you've done your homework and have a pretty thorough understanding of basic sexual concepts, like how to build sexual tension, the importance of foreplay (and how to use foreplay correctly), as well as knowing her quite intimately. That is, you need to know her personal hot zones, what makes her go absolutely wild, and what her particular fantasies and fetishes are.
Finally, your dirty talk skills need to be up to par. You need to understand the principles of triggers, command words, and all that fun stuff.
These are the basic tools you need to give your a girl a truly unforgettable orgasm. Now we are going to cover the techniques.
Baby Steps
You can't expect a girl to have an insanely good orgasm right off the bat. You have to work her up to it. Begin by giving her a "nice" orgasm, and gradually build it up to multiples and stronger orgasms. Eventually she will be amazingly aroused and very, very sexually open to any kind of sexual stimulus.
This is when you want to pull out the big guns.
All Together Now
When you are ready to give her that killer orgasm, it's time to put together everything you know about her.
Her hottest spots. Her favorite things. Her wildest fantasies. Your best dirty talk.
It's all got to come together for this to work.
Make sure she's getting strong, rhythmic stimulation, preferably to her clitoris, vagina, and G Spot all at the same time. Possible positions that may work well for this include (but are not limited to) doggie, and the good old missionary (with a pillow or too under her buttocks to help elevate her hips at a good angle so your penis hits her G Spot). Whilst you are having sex with her get her to moisten her fingers (saliva works well) and play with her clitoris.
Don't Stop the Music
One of the most important points is you absolutely cannot let up on the stimulation here. She might have some orgasms - that's fine, keep going. Eventually the stimulation will reach a crescendo and she's about to have a BIG one.
Now's the time to use the dirty talk triggers.
Tell her how much you want her to orgasm. Tell her how aroused it will make you when she does. Tell her she's about to orgasm really, really hard. Of course, substitute your own wording, which will no doubt be far more powerful than the "clean" language I have to use in the confines of this article.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to give girls orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give a Girl an Orgasm.
First of all, I'm going to assume that when you say "unforgettable orgasm" you mean an insanely powerful, sheet-twisting, breath-taking, mind-blowing orgasm that is going to give her mental images to masturbate to for the next few months at least.
Secondly, I'm going to assume you've done your homework and have a pretty thorough understanding of basic sexual concepts, like how to build sexual tension, the importance of foreplay (and how to use foreplay correctly), as well as knowing her quite intimately. That is, you need to know her personal hot zones, what makes her go absolutely wild, and what her particular fantasies and fetishes are.
Finally, your dirty talk skills need to be up to par. You need to understand the principles of triggers, command words, and all that fun stuff.
These are the basic tools you need to give your a girl a truly unforgettable orgasm. Now we are going to cover the techniques.
Baby Steps
You can't expect a girl to have an insanely good orgasm right off the bat. You have to work her up to it. Begin by giving her a "nice" orgasm, and gradually build it up to multiples and stronger orgasms. Eventually she will be amazingly aroused and very, very sexually open to any kind of sexual stimulus.
This is when you want to pull out the big guns.
All Together Now
When you are ready to give her that killer orgasm, it's time to put together everything you know about her.
Her hottest spots. Her favorite things. Her wildest fantasies. Your best dirty talk.
It's all got to come together for this to work.
Make sure she's getting strong, rhythmic stimulation, preferably to her clitoris, vagina, and G Spot all at the same time. Possible positions that may work well for this include (but are not limited to) doggie, and the good old missionary (with a pillow or too under her buttocks to help elevate her hips at a good angle so your penis hits her G Spot). Whilst you are having sex with her get her to moisten her fingers (saliva works well) and play with her clitoris.
Don't Stop the Music
One of the most important points is you absolutely cannot let up on the stimulation here. She might have some orgasms - that's fine, keep going. Eventually the stimulation will reach a crescendo and she's about to have a BIG one.
Now's the time to use the dirty talk triggers.
Tell her how much you want her to orgasm. Tell her how aroused it will make you when she does. Tell her she's about to orgasm really, really hard. Of course, substitute your own wording, which will no doubt be far more powerful than the "clean" language I have to use in the confines of this article.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to give girls orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give a Girl an Orgasm.
Friday, February 13, 2009
How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms
I've always envied women.
Men like myself can have one orgasm, then we're done. Sure, there are things like hypnosis and tantra that can theoretically make you have an orgasmic experience without ejaculating, but basically speaking, we get one shot (no pun intended).
Women can just keep coming, and coming, and coming.
Unfortunately, however, it is incredibly difficult to find the kind of guy who knows how to give her that incredible level of orgasmic pleasure that many women will only be able to fantasize about.
Therefore, in this article, I'm going to show you some of my best tips to ensure that you know how to give a female multiple, mind-blowing orgasms any time you want.
Learn to Walk Before You Run
Can you consistently give your partner powerful orgasms?
If not, then what makes you think you will be able to give her MULTIPLE orgasms?
Giving a woman multiple orgasms is relatively simple, IF you know what you're doing. Essentially, you just have to do everything you normally do better. There are some extra tricks - which we'll discuss in a minute - but for now, if you can't give your partner really good single orgasms on a consistent basis, then you'd be better off honing your skills until you can do that before you learn this advanced technique.
The Secrets to Giving Women Multiple Orgasms
As I mentioned earlier, there aren't really any secrets to giving a woman multiple orgasms. You just have to do what you do to give her a single orgasm - with a few modifications.
Firstly, she has to be in a state of heightened arousal. I mean REALLY heightened. If you haven't mastered the basics - namely, if you don't know how to create an incredible amount of sexual tension, and have really, really good foreplay that leaves her begging for more, well, you need to learn how. I'm not trying to be mean, here - that's just the way it is.
Once she's really aroused, the fun begins.
It doesn't really matter how you give your female friend multiple orgasms. I suggest you choose a method which you have found she is very receptive to, and also one in which you have sufficient stamina to be able to keep the sexual stimulation at high levels.
I've done it using my mouth, fingers, doggy-style, missionary, and much more. Use whatever works for you (and her).
Once you have chosen your preferred method, it's pretty simple from here on out. Essentially, you want to gradually increase the sexual stimulation she's receiving until she orgasms. Then - and here's the trick to multiples - give her a moment or two to have the orgasm wash over her, then keep going until she has another one.
Rinse and repeat.
The key to good multiple female orgasms is all about timing. You want to ensure that you give her enough sexual stimulation to put her "over the edge", wait until she's JUST finished riding the "Wave" of the orgasm, then start again. If you do things right, the time it takes her to build to orgasm should gradually decrease. Keep this up long enough, and the lines between orgasms will start to blur, and she'll be in one continuous state of orgasm.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on giving a female multiple orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms.
Men like myself can have one orgasm, then we're done. Sure, there are things like hypnosis and tantra that can theoretically make you have an orgasmic experience without ejaculating, but basically speaking, we get one shot (no pun intended).
Women can just keep coming, and coming, and coming.
Unfortunately, however, it is incredibly difficult to find the kind of guy who knows how to give her that incredible level of orgasmic pleasure that many women will only be able to fantasize about.
Therefore, in this article, I'm going to show you some of my best tips to ensure that you know how to give a female multiple, mind-blowing orgasms any time you want.
Learn to Walk Before You Run
Can you consistently give your partner powerful orgasms?
If not, then what makes you think you will be able to give her MULTIPLE orgasms?
Giving a woman multiple orgasms is relatively simple, IF you know what you're doing. Essentially, you just have to do everything you normally do better. There are some extra tricks - which we'll discuss in a minute - but for now, if you can't give your partner really good single orgasms on a consistent basis, then you'd be better off honing your skills until you can do that before you learn this advanced technique.
The Secrets to Giving Women Multiple Orgasms
As I mentioned earlier, there aren't really any secrets to giving a woman multiple orgasms. You just have to do what you do to give her a single orgasm - with a few modifications.
Firstly, she has to be in a state of heightened arousal. I mean REALLY heightened. If you haven't mastered the basics - namely, if you don't know how to create an incredible amount of sexual tension, and have really, really good foreplay that leaves her begging for more, well, you need to learn how. I'm not trying to be mean, here - that's just the way it is.
Once she's really aroused, the fun begins.
It doesn't really matter how you give your female friend multiple orgasms. I suggest you choose a method which you have found she is very receptive to, and also one in which you have sufficient stamina to be able to keep the sexual stimulation at high levels.
I've done it using my mouth, fingers, doggy-style, missionary, and much more. Use whatever works for you (and her).
Once you have chosen your preferred method, it's pretty simple from here on out. Essentially, you want to gradually increase the sexual stimulation she's receiving until she orgasms. Then - and here's the trick to multiples - give her a moment or two to have the orgasm wash over her, then keep going until she has another one.
Rinse and repeat.
The key to good multiple female orgasms is all about timing. You want to ensure that you give her enough sexual stimulation to put her "over the edge", wait until she's JUST finished riding the "Wave" of the orgasm, then start again. If you do things right, the time it takes her to build to orgasm should gradually decrease. Keep this up long enough, and the lines between orgasms will start to blur, and she'll be in one continuous state of orgasm.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on giving a female multiple orgasms.
Article originally published here: How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms.
How to Be Good In Bed With a Girl - How to Give Her the Best Sex She's Ever Had!
We've all, at some time or another, had a close female friend who has told us about her latest sexual exploits.
And every now and then, she'll talk about the guy that was "good in bed".
I say guy, because, for most girls, there's usually only the one. After all, guys who know their way around the bedroom aren't usually easy to find.
So what, exactly, makes a guy qualified as "good in bed"? Is it the size of his, er, "equipment"? Is it how many orgasms he is able to give her? Is it the fact that he has remarkable sexual stamina?
No, no, and no.
These things may help, sure. Then again, they may not. Being well endowed myself I can tell you it doesn't always work out as well as you might hope (some girls just can't handle it). And some of the best sex I've ever had (and given) has clocked in at under ten minutes.
And, contrary to what you may think, orgasms are not the be-all and end-all for a woman. Although they are a nice bonus.
Being good in bed with a girl is something that has a lot of different factors. Being able to check one box won't necessarily signify anything significant - it's a situation where the whole is definitely greater than the sum of its parts.
Some General Principles
*Care about her pleasure. It seems like a basic rule, and most of you reading this will probably have figured this one out already (or else why would you be here?) but sometimes in the throes of passion we can forget. If you want to make a good impression on her, make sure she is taken care of before you worry about yourself. Pay attention and communicate about what she does and doesn't like, and endeavour to give her pleasure before you seek it for yourself.
*Don't be a wuss. Whilst I'm not advocating being a chauvinist pig, there is millions of years of genetic programming in our bodies that some things just can't override - especially during a primitive, primal act like sex. Take the lead and tell the girl what you want them to do, and be the one to make the first moves and suggest positions. Believe me, if a girl has a problem with what you are doing, she will make her objection known very plainly - and if you obey her wishes and stop when she asks, odds are she won't make a big deal about it and will just chalk it up to a communication error. And if she doesn't - do you really want to be hanging out with her anyway?
*Be confident. If you're worried about if your gut is showing, or if you are big enough, or that you're going to ejaculate prematurely, DON'T. These kinds of things come through very plainly and is a sure-fire way to kill the mood you worked so hard to establish.
*Make sure you talk to her. Tell her how hot she is, how good she makes you feel - if you are feeling bold, try sprinkling a little dirty talk into the mix and see if she reacts in a good way. If she does, keep using it - especially as a psychological trigger to push her "over the edge" when she's about to climax.
More importantly than all this, just have fun and enjoy the experience. It's sex, not a calculus exam. If you bump elbows, or funny noises happen, just laugh about it and keep going. After all, isn't that what good sex is all about - enjoyment?
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.
If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on being good in bed with a girl.
Article originally published here: How to be Good In Bed.
And every now and then, she'll talk about the guy that was "good in bed".
I say guy, because, for most girls, there's usually only the one. After all, guys who know their way around the bedroom aren't usually easy to find.
So what, exactly, makes a guy qualified as "good in bed"? Is it the size of his, er, "equipment"? Is it how many orgasms he is able to give her? Is it the fact that he has remarkable sexual stamina?
No, no, and no.
These things may help, sure. Then again, they may not. Being well endowed myself I can tell you it doesn't always work out as well as you might hope (some girls just can't handle it). And some of the best sex I've ever had (and given) has clocked in at under ten minutes.
And, contrary to what you may think, orgasms are not the be-all and end-all for a woman. Although they are a nice bonus.
Being good in bed with a girl is something that has a lot of different factors. Being able to check one box won't necessarily signify anything significant - it's a situation where the whole is definitely greater than the sum of its parts.
Some General Principles
*Care about her pleasure. It seems like a basic rule, and most of you reading this will probably have figured this one out already (or else why would you be here?) but sometimes in the throes of passion we can forget. If you want to make a good impression on her, make sure she is taken care of before you worry about yourself. Pay attention and communicate about what she does and doesn't like, and endeavour to give her pleasure before you seek it for yourself.
*Don't be a wuss. Whilst I'm not advocating being a chauvinist pig, there is millions of years of genetic programming in our bodies that some things just can't override - especially during a primitive, primal act like sex. Take the lead and tell the girl what you want them to do, and be the one to make the first moves and suggest positions. Believe me, if a girl has a problem with what you are doing, she will make her objection known very plainly - and if you obey her wishes and stop when she asks, odds are she won't make a big deal about it and will just chalk it up to a communication error. And if she doesn't - do you really want to be hanging out with her anyway?
*Be confident. If you're worried about if your gut is showing, or if you are big enough, or that you're going to ejaculate prematurely, DON'T. These kinds of things come through very plainly and is a sure-fire way to kill the mood you worked so hard to establish.
*Make sure you talk to her. Tell her how hot she is, how good she makes you feel - if you are feeling bold, try sprinkling a little dirty talk into the mix and see if she reacts in a good way. If she does, keep using it - especially as a psychological trigger to push her "over the edge" when she's about to climax.
More importantly than all this, just have fun and enjoy the experience. It's sex, not a calculus exam. If you bump elbows, or funny noises happen, just laugh about it and keep going. After all, isn't that what good sex is all about - enjoyment?
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Article originally published here: How to be Good In Bed.
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