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Saturday, February 14, 2009

Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm

There are lots of "easy" ways to make a girl have an orgasm. But what, exactly, are the easiest?

As usual this is somewhat of a loaded question. Every girl is different, hence, the "easiest" way to give a girl an orgasm will be different for every single woman.

Having said that, in this article I hope to cover some simple, effective points which will provide you with a good starting point to begin your investigations on what exactly will give your girl the easiest orgasms possible.

Involve Her Most Powerful Sexual Organ

If you're wondering what I'm referring to, it isn't the clitoris, G-Spot, or anything like that.

It's her mind.

That's right. If you want to learn one of the biggest keys to making her orgasm quickly and easily, you need to learn exactly how to engage her mind and get her sexually excited mentally. Talk dirty to her. Tell her exactly what you're going to do to her. Make sure you use your words to draw attention to what you want her to focus on - visual sights, feelings, telling you what feels good - whatever. The point is to ensure that she's as involved as possible in the experience, whilst also accelerating her arousal.

Making Life Easy on Yourself

On the subject of arousal, it may surprise you to know that the secret to making a girl orgasm quickly and easily has far less to do with your actual "moves" than you may expect. In reality, the fact of the matter is that the more "prep work" you do - as in, the more aroused you can make her before you start trying to make her orgasm - the quicker and easier she will orgasm.

To put it another way, you really shouldn't skimp on building sexual arousal, sexual tension, and having powerful foreplay. If you do, you're only making things more difficult for yourself later in the session, and potentially giving both yourself and your partner a very frustrating experience.

Learn From Your Mistakes

Finally, if you are fortunate enough to have the ability to have regular sexual contact with one girl, please pay attention during sex. Learn what she does and doesn't like. What turns her on and what turns her off. Her favorite positions, her fetishes, her fantasies. Armed with this kind of information you should be able to make her orgasm quicker and easier every time you have sex, and theoretically sex for both of you should gradually get better and better.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on easy ways to give a girl orgasms.

Article originally published here: Easy Ways to Give a Girl an Orgasm.

How to GIve Your Girlfriend an Orgasm

Before We Begin

This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.

Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.

Basically, you need to know the basics. You can brush up on them by reading the other articles I have written on this site, or, alternatively, visiting my blog (the link is at the end of the article), in which all the articles are reprinted for your convenience.

What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?

Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.

What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.

Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success

Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labelled these as numerical steps, as follows.

1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.

2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.

3. You need to be fairly knowledgable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be pounding her (excuse the pun) with multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or pumping her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the details for now.

Making It Happen

So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.

Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be ultra-horny before you even get into the bedroom (for an explanation of how to create sexual tension, check out my e-book, Incredible In Bed. The link's at the end of this article). The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her hornier than she's ever been before.

Once she's really, really, really horny, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.

Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, licking her pussy (or both if that works for you), or having sex in her favorite position.

The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.

If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nibbles tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. DO whatever you can to send her wild.

The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - bang her REALLY hard (but not so hard you hurt her).'

All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will come more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.

If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.

One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. Things like "Oh yeah baby, I'll bet that feels so good. Come really hard for me. I want to feel you come all over my (cock/finger/face)." The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.

If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.

Article originally published here: How to Give Your Girlfriends Orgasms.

How to Give a Girl a G Spot Orgasm

I'm going to make some assumptions here, so bear with me.

First of all, I'm going to assume that when you say "unforgettable orgasm" you mean an insanely powerful, sheet-twisting, breath-taking, mind-blowing orgasm that is going to give her mental images to masturbate to for the next few months at least.

Secondly, I'm going to assume you've done your homework and have a pretty thorough understanding of basic sexual concepts, like how to build sexual tension, the importance of foreplay (and how to use foreplay correctly), as well as knowing her quite intimately. That is, you need to know her personal hot zones, what makes her go absolutely wild, and what her particular fantasies and fetishes are.

Finally, your dirty talk skills need to be up to par. You need to understand the principles of triggers, command words, and all that fun stuff.

These are the basic tools you need to give your a girl a truly unforgettable orgasm. Now we are going to cover the techniques.

Baby Steps

You can't expect a girl to have an insanely good orgasm right off the bat. You have to work her up to it. Begin by giving her a "nice" orgasm, and gradually build it up to multiples and stronger orgasms. Eventually she will be amazingly aroused and very, very sexually open to any kind of sexual stimulus.

This is when you want to pull out the big guns.

All Together Now

When you are ready to give her that killer orgasm, it's time to put together everything you know about her.

Her hottest spots. Her favorite things. Her wildest fantasies. Your best dirty talk.

It's all got to come together for this to work.

Make sure she's getting strong, rhythmic stimulation, preferably to her clitoris, vagina, and G Spot all at the same time. Possible positions that may work well for this include (but are not limited to) doggie, and the good old missionary (with a pillow or too under her buttocks to help elevate her hips at a good angle so your penis hits her G Spot). Whilst you are having sex with her get her to moisten her fingers (saliva works well) and play with her clitoris.

Don't Stop the Music

One of the most important points is you absolutely cannot let up on the stimulation here. She might have some orgasms - that's fine, keep going. Eventually the stimulation will reach a crescendo and she's about to have a BIG one.

Now's the time to use the dirty talk triggers.

Tell her how much you want her to orgasm. Tell her how aroused it will make you when she does. Tell her she's about to orgasm really, really hard. Of course, substitute your own wording, which will no doubt be far more powerful than the "clean" language I have to use in the confines of this article.
Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to give girls orgasms.

Article originally published here: How to Give a Girl an Orgasm.

Friday, February 13, 2009

How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms

I've always envied women.

Men like myself can have one orgasm, then we're done. Sure, there are things like hypnosis and tantra that can theoretically make you have an orgasmic experience without ejaculating, but basically speaking, we get one shot (no pun intended).

Women can just keep coming, and coming, and coming.

Unfortunately, however, it is incredibly difficult to find the kind of guy who knows how to give her that incredible level of orgasmic pleasure that many women will only be able to fantasize about.

Therefore, in this article, I'm going to show you some of my best tips to ensure that you know how to give a female multiple, mind-blowing orgasms any time you want.

Learn to Walk Before You Run

Can you consistently give your partner powerful orgasms?

If not, then what makes you think you will be able to give her MULTIPLE orgasms?

Giving a woman multiple orgasms is relatively simple, IF you know what you're doing. Essentially, you just have to do everything you normally do better. There are some extra tricks - which we'll discuss in a minute - but for now, if you can't give your partner really good single orgasms on a consistent basis, then you'd be better off honing your skills until you can do that before you learn this advanced technique.

The Secrets to Giving Women Multiple Orgasms

As I mentioned earlier, there aren't really any secrets to giving a woman multiple orgasms. You just have to do what you do to give her a single orgasm - with a few modifications.

Firstly, she has to be in a state of heightened arousal. I mean REALLY heightened. If you haven't mastered the basics - namely, if you don't know how to create an incredible amount of sexual tension, and have really, really good foreplay that leaves her begging for more, well, you need to learn how. I'm not trying to be mean, here - that's just the way it is.

Once she's really aroused, the fun begins.

It doesn't really matter how you give your female friend multiple orgasms. I suggest you choose a method which you have found she is very receptive to, and also one in which you have sufficient stamina to be able to keep the sexual stimulation at high levels.

I've done it using my mouth, fingers, doggy-style, missionary, and much more. Use whatever works for you (and her).

Once you have chosen your preferred method, it's pretty simple from here on out. Essentially, you want to gradually increase the sexual stimulation she's receiving until she orgasms. Then - and here's the trick to multiples - give her a moment or two to have the orgasm wash over her, then keep going until she has another one.

Rinse and repeat.

The key to good multiple female orgasms is all about timing. You want to ensure that you give her enough sexual stimulation to put her "over the edge", wait until she's JUST finished riding the "Wave" of the orgasm, then start again. If you do things right, the time it takes her to build to orgasm should gradually decrease. Keep this up long enough, and the lines between orgasms will start to blur, and she'll be in one continuous state of orgasm.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on giving a female multiple orgasms.

Article originally published here: How to Give a Female Multiple Orgasms.

3 Of the Best Ways to Give Your Girlfriend An Orgasm

Many men wish they could give their girlfriends the kinds of orgasms they know she craves.

You know, the ones that make her shake and moan for minutes on end. The ones that make her eyes go back into her head and her toes curl.

The ones that make her feel such incredible sexual pleasure that she's willing to do absolutely anything to please you.

If you are one of these men, then wish no more, as I'm going to reveal to you three of my proven, sure-fire best ways to give your girlfriend an orgasm.

#1: Know How To Give Killer Foreplay

Strangely enough, the biggest reason why most guys have trouble giving their girlfriend an orgasm has nothing to do with the sex itself. More likely it's the fact that they just don't know how to provide interesting, stimulating foreplay.

Foreplay is a very useful tool in many ways. Firstly, it gets her aroused and ready for sex, meaning anything that you DO do during sex is going to have a much more intense, powerful impact, leading her to faster, easier, better orgasms. Secondly, it helps prolong the experience whilst adding to the atmosphere. Remember, that for your girlfriend, sex isn't all about orgasm - it's about all the experiences that lead up to that point as well.

Learning the art of foreplay and how to correctly and effectively build sexual tension is probably one of the most powerful, useful things you can do to enhance your lovemaking prowess and your girlfriend's pleasure.

#2: Go Down on Her

Most women report they have trouble reaching orgasm during sex.

There are a whole heap of reasons for this, and while any "blocks" that prevent your girlfriend from reaching orgasm quickly, easily, and consistently can be easily removed, provided you have the right kind of knowledge on how to do this, why make your life harder than it has to be?

Why not just choose a method of stimulation that is likely to give her bigger, more powerful orgasms easier and quicker?

Cunilingus (a fancy term for "licking your girlfriend's vagina) is a very powerful technique that can drive women to orgasm quite quickly and easily.

Obviously there's a lot more to it than just going down there and sticking your tongue in, but there isn't really room in this article to cover the intricacies of the act. Good cunilingus is an art, and although there are definitely ways to get a shortcut to your progress, like anything, practise makes perfect.

#3: Know Your Positions

In order to give your girlfriend an orgasm during sex, you really need to know your sexual positions.

Try and learn which positions are good for certain types of stimulation, not to mention what your girlfriend prefers, and what works best for both of you based on body shape, penis size and shape, and many other things.

Some positions are designed for clitoral stimulation. Some will really help your penis hit her G spot. Others allow you to be close, face to face, and are fantastic for an encounter you want to make more intimate.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.

Article originally published here: The Best Way to Give Girlfriends Orgasms.