How to GIve Your Girlfriend an Orgasm

Before We Begin

This is for those of you that want to give their girlfriends an incredibly awesome orgasm. Not just a good, great, or even fantastic one, but one that she will be thinking about for the next year.

Obviously, this title assumes you can give your girlfriend an orgasm. In fact, for the context of this article, you really need to know how to give your girlfriend orgasms fairly regularly, and consistently.

Basically, you need to know the basics. You can brush up on them by reading the other articles I have written on this site, or, alternatively, visiting my blog (the link is at the end of the article), in which all the articles are reprinted for your convenience.

What Is an "Amazing Orgasm"?

Simply put, an amazing orgasm is a really, really intense orgasm that a girl just cannot NOT love. When she experiences it, her whole body will shake, she'll probably scream out, and if she's a squirter it's highly possible that she'll do that too.

What it is NOT - this orgasm is very powerful, but is largely triggered by her physical and mental (and emotional, and possibly spiritual) senses working together to produce something larger than the sum of its parts. It's not triggered by use of any one specific type of stimulation (such as clitoral, vaginal, or G-Spot) and its not triggered by any particular techniques.

Doing the Prep Work to Ensure Success

Like most good sexual experiences, the key here is to lay the groundwork to ensure that this kind of orgasm is actually capable of happening to your girlfriend. To ensure this kind of environment, first we need to make sure that the appropriate preparation is handled to maximise your chances of success. For the ease of reference, I've labelled these as numerical steps, as follows.

1. She must trust you a LOT. Basically you have to really put her at ease and let her know that nothing bad is going to happen. Talk to her and let her know that if she says stop, you'll stop. Explain to her that it's entirely possible she will be experiencing an amazing amount of pleasure, and that sometimes the brain mistakes all this pleasure for pain. The good news is once she "conquers" this feeling she will be able to have the most crazy orgasms ever, and it is only a slight possibility - however, better to be prepared.

2. She has to be open and willing to allow herself to have this kind of pleasure. A lot of girls "hold back" from these intense orgasms because they are scared of how they look or act while they're having them. I know it's silly, but again, you need to reassure her that you don't care what she does. Let her know it would really make your day (and get you off, if appropriate) to see her experience that kind of pleasure and you're really looking forward to it. However, make sure she's not hung up on achieving the orgasm, because that's the fastest way to kill your chances. Like any other sexual experience, you just have to enjoy the ride and not worry about whether or not that "Big Big BIG O" actually happens. Even when you do everything right, sometimes it just won't, so be prepared for that.

3. You need to be fairly knowledgable on what her turn-ons and turn-offs are. To achieve this orgasm, you're going to be pounding her (excuse the pun) with multiple stimuli all at once. So in addition to fingering her or going down on her or pumping her or whatever, you're also going to be kissing her, licking her, caressing her, talking dirty to her, painting scenarios in her mind, and so on. We will go into more detail on this later on, so don't worry about the details for now.

Making It Happen

So, if you've done all your prep work correctly, you've got a really good chance of making this happen. As those of you familiar with my other work may expect, the "hard work" is in the preparation. If you've done that correctly then this part really plays itself out.

Assuming you've built sexual tension correctly, she should be ultra-horny before you even get into the bedroom (for an explanation of how to create sexual tension, check out my e-book, Incredible In Bed. The link's at the end of this article). The next step is the light foreplay. Make sure you really, really drag it out - the key to this orgasm is making her hornier than she's ever been before.

Once she's really, really, really horny, you're going to start giving her orgasms. Again, the key to this amazing orgasm she's about to have is baby steps. You don't try and make her first orgasm the big one. Start out by just giving her fairly bearable orgasms, working into more intense ones, multiples, and so on. When she's come a few times and is really getting into the swing of things, THEN you can pull out the moves to bring on the BIG BIG BIG O.

Remember how I told you before that you needed to know her likes and dislikes? This is where you put it all together. Start off by either fingering her, licking her pussy (or both if that works for you), or having sex in her favorite position.

The way I teach people about this, is that this kind of orgasm is like a pizza. Her favorite sexual activity/position is the base, and now you're going to add the toppings as well.

If she likes her earlobes being nibbled on, do that. If roleplay is her thing, go for it. Talk dirty to her and get her even more worked up. If she likes having her nibbles tweaked or her neck bitten go for it. DO whatever you can to send her wild.

The key here is that while you're doing all that other stuff, you can't stop doing your base activity. In addition your "base" has to be very strong, meaning a lot of stimulation. To put it in layman's terms - bang her REALLY hard (but not so hard you hurt her).'

All going well, while you do this she will start to feel an orgasm build, or at least it will feel really, really good. Don't back off yet. The minute you slow down you give her time to have an orgasm. It's entirely possible she will come more than once while you're doing this - that's fine. It will all build towards this tidal wave of an orgasm that we are creating.

If she says she feels like she needs to pee, she probably doesn't. Just tell her to breathe deep and "push past" the feeling. Once she does, she will have the most massive orgasm ever and she probably won't have this problem ever again.

One last tip to finish - I have found that when you want her to have this massive orgasm, you should tell her verbally. Things like "Oh yeah baby, I'll bet that feels so good. Come really hard for me. I want to feel you come all over my (cock/finger/face)." The "command" can be somewhat of a trigger to allow her to have this massive orgasm, so make sure you try using it.

If all goes well, your girlfriend will have just had the most awesome orgasm ever - and she's only got you to thank for it. Just don't be too surprised when she tells you she wants another one - those things are addictive.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.

Article originally published here: How to Give Your Girlfriends Orgasms.

3 Of the Best Ways to Give Your Girlfriend An Orgasm

Many men wish they could give their girlfriends the kinds of orgasms they know she craves.

You know, the ones that make her shake and moan for minutes on end. The ones that make her eyes go back into her head and her toes curl.

The ones that make her feel such incredible sexual pleasure that she's willing to do absolutely anything to please you.

If you are one of these men, then wish no more, as I'm going to reveal to you three of my proven, sure-fire best ways to give your girlfriend an orgasm.

#1: Know How To Give Killer Foreplay

Strangely enough, the biggest reason why most guys have trouble giving their girlfriend an orgasm has nothing to do with the sex itself. More likely it's the fact that they just don't know how to provide interesting, stimulating foreplay.

Foreplay is a very useful tool in many ways. Firstly, it gets her aroused and ready for sex, meaning anything that you DO do during sex is going to have a much more intense, powerful impact, leading her to faster, easier, better orgasms. Secondly, it helps prolong the experience whilst adding to the atmosphere. Remember, that for your girlfriend, sex isn't all about orgasm - it's about all the experiences that lead up to that point as well.

Learning the art of foreplay and how to correctly and effectively build sexual tension is probably one of the most powerful, useful things you can do to enhance your lovemaking prowess and your girlfriend's pleasure.

#2: Go Down on Her

Most women report they have trouble reaching orgasm during sex.

There are a whole heap of reasons for this, and while any "blocks" that prevent your girlfriend from reaching orgasm quickly, easily, and consistently can be easily removed, provided you have the right kind of knowledge on how to do this, why make your life harder than it has to be?

Why not just choose a method of stimulation that is likely to give her bigger, more powerful orgasms easier and quicker?

Cunilingus (a fancy term for "licking your girlfriend's vagina) is a very powerful technique that can drive women to orgasm quite quickly and easily.

Obviously there's a lot more to it than just going down there and sticking your tongue in, but there isn't really room in this article to cover the intricacies of the act. Good cunilingus is an art, and although there are definitely ways to get a shortcut to your progress, like anything, practise makes perfect.

#3: Know Your Positions

In order to give your girlfriend an orgasm during sex, you really need to know your sexual positions.

Try and learn which positions are good for certain types of stimulation, not to mention what your girlfriend prefers, and what works best for both of you based on body shape, penis size and shape, and many other things.

Some positions are designed for clitoral stimulation. Some will really help your penis hit her G spot. Others allow you to be close, face to face, and are fantastic for an encounter you want to make more intimate.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on give your girlfriend orgasms.

Article originally published here: The Best Way to Give Girlfriends Orgasms.