Female Orgasm Secrets

Back in my younger days, before I got into writing about this kind of stuff for a living, I used to talk to a lot of girls about their sex lives. In fact, I still do, but it sounded cooler talking about my youth.

In any case, there were a lot of girls who confided in me that they thought there was something wrong with them sexually, because they simply could not climax. They told me their partners had read all these manuals on how to please a woman sexually and knew all the hottest techniques - so why were they having problems?

Quite simply, because sex is not about techniques. It's about simple, useful, common-sense principles.

Here's a secret about the female orgasm that most people won't tell you - it's VERY easy to bring about.

Provided, of course, you know what you're doing.

So many people these days can't see the forest for the trees. They are too busy trying fancy techniques (such as using an exact spiral motion with a very specific amount of pressure one inch below the clitoris, or whatever) that they've forgotten the basic rules about sexual gratification (assuming they ever knew them in the first place).

Sex is supposed to feel good for both parties. It's kind of important for the survival of the human race, so it makes sense that the urge is hardwired in our DNA to be one of the most physically pleasurable experiences we can go through.

So having said all that, here are some of the best kept secrets about the female orgasm. Read them, memorize them, apply them.

1. You Set Yourself Up for Success or Failure Before you Take Your Clothes Off

Building sexual tension and sexual attraction is the #1 step to giving a female an amazingly powerful orgasm. If you can't get this right, then anything else you try is doomed before it's even had a chance to get off the ground.

2. She Wants It More Than You (If You Do It Right)

Anyone who tells you women have a lower sex drive than men is lying. Sure, women who have never had amazing sex, or don't get it very often don't have a very high sex drive. Often, however, when they are receiving really good sex, they want it more than us. Think of a woman's sex drive as the reverse of a man's - the more she gets it, the more she wants it. Hence, never be afraid to initiate things, because if you can build sexual tension and attraction correctly, she won't say no.

3. You Need to Be the Man

In this day and age of political correctness, way too many guys don't want to be too manly. Splitting the check is one thing. Being a wuss in the bedroom is something else. It is hardcoded into a woman's DNA to want a man who will take a firm but gentle hold on the situation and lead her to where she wants to go. A few decades of feminism can't fight millions of years of natural selection. And before you send in the hatemail, please understand, I believe respect and equality is paramount to any good relationship. But that doesn't mean I'm going to donate my testicles to science and not be willing to take the lead in a sexual encounter.

4. Take Your Time

Foreplay is important for many, many reasons. Please, make sure you take your time and worship each part of the female body accordingly. Explore it, treasure it, caress it. Spending the time and effort on foreplay ensures that she will be much, much more receptive to your efforts during the main event.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

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Article originally published here: Female Orgasm Secrets.