How to Please a Woman in Bed

Pleasing a woman in bed is a very complex and tricky objective.

And, frankly, most guys just don't get it.

In fact, being able to please a woman in bed - I mean REALLY please her - is a lot more than just knowing the right spots to hit to give her multiple, mind-blowing orgasms (although that certainly helps).

In a nutshell, it's being able to connect with her on a number of levels in a significant way that will give her the best night of her life.

Before you run for the hills, please understand that I'm not saying you have to be in love with each other, or anything like that. You can definitely please a woman in bed the very first time you guys sleep together. It will usually be harder to do that than to please a woman you've been seeing for a long time and know a little better, but that's to be expected - the longer you spend with someone (and the more sex you have), your sex life should improve accordingly.

So What Does "Pleasing" a Woman in Bed Entail?

I used to think that the secret to pleasing a woman sexually was all a numbers game - give them as many incredible orgasms as I could in an hour or two, and let them bask in the afterglow.

Whilst those kinds of nights were a lot of fun, for both one of us, I have been fortunate enough to have experiences and feedback since then that has proven to me that this is not the ultimate in sexual satisfaction for a woman.

The Secret

The secret to pleasing a woman in bed is, if taken at face value, rather complex. However, if we break it down to its simplest form, the whole secret can be summed up in a single word.

Passion.

As corny as it may sound to you, having that amazing, passionate moment when it's almost as if both of you are sharing the same head space is a truly miraculous moment. Whilst it does not necessarily require mutual love, there is certainly a chemistry that has to exist in order for this kind of passion to blossom.

Of course, in our day to day lives it's easy to lose the passion from many aspects of our relationship, not just the sex. Somehow in between paying bills, meeting our commitments, study, work, and family we often don't make the time we should for good sex, and settle into a dull, monotonous routine that isn't fulfilling for either party.

What You Can Do to Have Amazing Sex

The first step to having this amazing, nigh-miraculous sex and truly pleasing your woman in the bedroom is to put in the effort to ensure you have an environment in which the kind of passion I am talking about can blossom.

Try setting aside an evening to have sex. Make whatever preparations you need to to ensure you have the house to yourselves. Make sure you really set the mood - your favorite music, a romantic candlelit dinner, a bubble bath together, or even just taking some time to cuddle up on the couch and watch TV together can all do wonders to help subconsciously get you attuned to each other and build the sexual anticipation.

When the time is right you can begin some slow, sensual foreplay and eventually lead into the main event itself. One point that is very important throughout this whole process is that you have to make a real, honest effort to connect in a solid way with your partner and her wants. Try and communicate to her without words how much you want to be with her tonight and how much you want her to enjoy it. The way you look at her, the way you touch her, your eyes - all these things will be subconsciously broadcasting signals to her based on your mindset and attitude, so make sure you are coming from a place of mutual respect and friendship. At the same time, as you're the man, it is usually up to you to take control - be firm but gentle in all of your dealings with her tonight, and I guarantee she'll be worshipping you in the morning.

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Article originally published here: The Secrets to Pleasing a Woman in Bed.