How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm

Whether you want better, longer-lasting, more frequent sex, or you just want to be able to give your woman the same incredible sexual pleasure that she gives (or that you want her to give) you, you're reading this article for one reason, and one reason only.

You want to know how to make a woman reach orgasm.

However, before we go any further, there's a fundamental flaw in this kind of thinking we have to correct.

You cannot MAKE a woman reach orgasm. You can, however, help her reach orgasm.

Some men can lead their women to orgasm, which could almost be classified as "making" her orgasm. However, the skills and expertise required to do this are quite complex. Usually, it is a last resort, because it is much easier and simpler to work with a woman, and have her help in unlocking her natural orgasmic state, than to have to do everything yourself.

The thing with leading a woman to orgasm is that you have to know exactly what you are doing. You need to know everything about female sexuality and the female sexual anatomy, how to effectively generate sexual tension, how to perform incredibly powerful foreplay, intimately know how to use all the female hot spots, and so on.

Helping a woman achieve orgasm, on the other hand, is much easier, because she will (hopefully) be somewhat attuned sexually with her body and be able to guide you, however slightly, towards what will push her over the edge.

Therefore, here are some of my best tips that you can use to give your woman incredible, multiple orgasms.

1. Communicate!

Every woman likes different things in the bedroom. Whilst you could spend hours and hours exploring her body and trying every single different technique you can think of (and you definitely should do that, at some point in your relationship), if you're just trying to get her to reach orgasm, why not try and shorten the learning curve for yourself?

If you're not sure if she likes what you're doing or not - ask her! If you wonder if she has a favorite position, let her tell you about it!

In fact, one of the best ways to communicate is through dirty talk. Not only does talking dirty add huge amounts of sexual tension to your sex, but it can also be used to get a feel for what is going right or wrong. Comments like "Do you that like, baby?" and "Oh yeah, I love it when you do that to me, it feels so good!", as well as your own creations, can go a long way to making sure you have the kinds of crazy sex you both crave.

2. Get Rid of Distractions

Women tend to think way too much during sex.

They think about all the pressures they have - deadlines for work, kids to look after, housework to do, bills to pay, how their thighs look from this angle, if their makeup is smudged, does that their butt look big in this light... and so on.

All these things get in the way of her naturally orgasmic state. Meaning, the more she's thinking, the less she's coming.

The counter to this is to retrain her mind to focus on her body and the way she's feeling. Light, sensuous touches that combine different kinds of sensations are a great way to do this. For example, running ice over a part of her body, then using your tongue (which is warm and she'll notice the contrast) is just one of the many ways you can get her to focus on the right stuff again.

3. Keep Things Fun

If she's trying too hard to orgasm, she won't. Remember that women enjoy the actual act of sex a lot - whether or not they orgasm. Obviously, you want to be able to give her powerful, mind-blowing orgasms as much as possible, but if she doesn't have one, it's not that big a deal.

Remember, sex is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, and pleasurable - keep it that way!

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to get a woman to reach orgasm.

Article originally published here: How to Make a Woman Reach Orgasm.