Saturday, February 14, 2009

Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm

Writing this article has proven to be quite a challenge.

You see, whilst there are certainly steps that have to be followed in order to give a girl a powerful, lasting orgasm, the actual nuances of those steps can vary so wildly from girl to girl that it can be very difficult in order to pin it down to any one particular formula.

Thankfully, however, I have enough experience under my belt to be able to make the distinction between necessary steps and personal preference. And in this article I am going to share with you my basic "road map" that I employ in order to give females incredible, powerful orgasms.

Step One: Build Sexual Tension

Simply put, sexual tension is making a girl "want you".

It is a simple concept, but in practise, it can be more difficult than you may think to be able to employ it skillfully in order to bring a girl to an incredibly receptive and sexual state of mind.

Essentially, in order to build sexual tension, you have to shift her mind's focus from whatever is going on in her world, to sex. Specifically, sex with you.

This can be done in several ways. I often use light touches and sexual innuendo (or, if I know the girl well enough, straight-out dirty talk) in order to really ramp up the sexual tension. Realistically, there are loads of ways to build sexual tension effectively, and a complete and thorough (or even brief) discussion of them is really beyond the scope of this article.

Step Two: The Body Follows the Mind

Once you have attuned her mind to sex, your next step is to do a similar thing with her body. We are going to do this through foreplay.

Most guys get foreplay wrong because they think it's about sexual pleasure. It definitely can be that, too, but before we get to that point, we have to "re-focus" the body to become accustomed to a sexual touch.

This means that you should start off with light, flowing, teasing movements. Run your hands over her body. Trace the shape of her breasts with your lips. Let her feel your hot breath on her neck.

The point here is to get the touch receptors and nerves in her skin "fired up" and responding to sexual contact. Again, there is a lot more to it than this brief synopsis, but that is at least the general idea.

Step Three: Provide the Stimulation That Will Bring her to Orgasm

Believe it or not, if you're followed the instructions laid out so far, and done the previous two phases really well, you're already 80% of the way there. In fact, regardless of what you do now, your girl will probably have a powerful, lasting orgasm.

But that's no reason to slack off now, is it?

There are a lot of factors that come into play when it comes to giving a girl a powerful, earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasm. You have to have a solid understanding of the female sexual anatomy, including how to find and use the clitoris, and G Spot. You need to know the female "hot spots" (there are over twenty) in order to ensure that you maximise her pleasure. You need to have a decent knowledge of which positions are best used for certain types of stimulation, and how to position yourself for maximum stimulation.

That's not to mention being able to read the subtle verbal and physical signals a girl will use in order to tell you what she wants, how to communicate effectively in the bedroom, and what her own personal preferences are.

Thankfully, you've already done the "hard yards" by now, so all you have to do is to ensure that she receives the necessary stimulation to "push her over the edge" and make her orgasm powerfully. Make sure you focus on constantly stimulating her mind as well as her body, and ensure that you remove any negative mental "self-talk" she may have going on.

If you follow these instructions, and carry out the suggestions I have given you correctly, then I guarantee you there is no way that you will be unable to give your girl a powerful, lasting, multiple-orgasms every single night.

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Article originally published here: Instructions on How to Make a Girl Orgasm.

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