How to Make a Girl Orgasm

For many girls, having an orgasm at all can be very difficult. Let alone being able to have them relatively easily, quickly, and without effort.

However, this is not the way it has to be. In fact, I have helped many women uncover their natural potential of being able to orgasm consistently and easily. And I'm about to share some of those very secrets with you right now.

The first step to solving a problem is to identify what the true problem really is. The most common cause of a girl's inability to orgasm usually comes down to one or more of a few possible choices. Either she is not receiving the kind of stimulation she needs (which can be dependent on many different variables), or she is not aroused enough to be able to orgasm.

Whilst I have written many articles (and part of my e-book) on common mistakes men make regarding sexual stimulation for women, it isn't really the main cause. Sure, improving your technique in this regard may make things better for her, but it is far rarer to be a deal-breaker than the fact that she isn't aroused enough.

If she isn't aroused enough, again, there are two possible scenarios. The first is that she is not receiving enough foreplay from you, or not the right type or foreplay. In essence, you just aren't turning her on. If that's the case, then you need to learn and understand the principles of foreplay, sexual attraction and sexual tension. Again, that is beyond the scope of this article.

The other possibility, and one that is certainly prevalent in our society, is one that is a little harder to deal with.

Self-sabotage.

Without delving into the historical, political, and religious reasoning behind it (a subject on which whole books can, and have been written) there is one thing you need to know.

Many women have an ingrained fear of allowing themselves to be sexually expressive.

Society at large still has a very strong notion that any women that enjoy themselves sexually are "dirty". Add this to the fact that women are normally extremely self-conscious about their image and how they portray themselves (something you will have observed with painful accuracy if you've ever tried to help a woman select her dress for a party) and you have a very debilitating mental state that makes it almost impossible for a woman to orgasm.

When we have sex, we generally are thinking about how good it feels, how sexy the woman in front of us is, that sort of thing.

Way too many women are having thoughts like "Does my butt look big from this angle? Is my makeup still okay? God, my hair's a mess! If I let him do me from behind am I going to lose his respect?"... And so on.

I think you can imagine how difficult it is to orgasm when you're thinking like that.

Therefore, in order to help a woman bring out her buried sexuality, you have to help her understand and embrace that it's okay to let loose during sex. Tell her how good it makes you feel to see her enjoying herself. Tell her how sexy she looks from that angle.

If you can build up her self-confidence and help her understand that sex is something to be enjoyed, not to worry about, then you will have eliminated one of the biggest factors that inhibits a woman's sexual enjoyment - and reap the benefits for a long time to come.

Believe me, there is no need to be embarrassed about not being able to give your partner the kind of mind-blowing, earth-shattering multiple orgasms that you KNOW she craves. If you want to be able to make her orgasm harder, faster, and easier than ever before, why not join the thousands of men just like you that we have already helped and visit us simply by clicking here.

If you want more powerful, free information on how you can give your partner incredibly powerful orgasms without fail, then feel free to check out our other articles on how to make a girl orgasm.

Article originally published here: Make Your Girl Orgasm.